Wednesday, November 14, 2012

An Anniversary and a Transition

We started this little blog three years ago today...

Since then there have been 1056 posts here, and, according to the little google meter, more than 730,000 page views. We seem to average about 1100 page views a day these days.  And all that  doesn't count our month long exodus last fall to Mistress and Slave on the Lam , when we thought our cover had been blown. That frolic and detour covered about 35 posts from exotic climes and plush yurts in Whatthehellitstan under the sheltering wing  of the sex bloggers'  protection program.

The blog has been a joyful act of lust over these 36 months, and personally therapeutic for Mistress and Slave: in a strange way it helped us get beyond a soft patch in our marriage, by providing a focus and an opportunity for this humble Slave to express his devotion and addiction to my beloved Molly.

There have been more than 1000 mornings in which we started our day with Mistress reading the blog as I lavished her clean shaven folds with the attention it deserved. (Come to think of it, when we got rolling here, she had a lush patch of fur down there, lost at the suggestion of Mike, one of our first and certainly most loyal fans.)

And of course things evolved for us in unexpected but always entertaining ways as a result of the blog.

With role models like Suzanne, Tammy and Jay over at All Mine, Mistress got the inspiration to branch out and fully exploit her contractual rights to test the water with a variety of other lovers. It's a process that continues now, as she sorts through her current  collection of suitors.... Matt, the "nice guy" who's taking it slow, and who will take Molly to dinner on Sunday night; K, aka, Mr. Perfect Cock, with the glamorous Lance Armstrong packaging that's hard to resist;  and the other Matt, who wants to scratch Mistress's urge to submit.  Mistress has  lunch set up with the other Matt on Friday for their first face to face.

Who could forget Home Cumming Weekend, just over a year ago, when I got to watch Mistress take the muscular Didi with her strap-on, and the next night, succumb to the oral stylings of that barely 20 year old who ended up in jail days later on a trumped up charge. (Of course, that's why we went on the Lam).

Then there is our far flung staff: our Western Correspondent, with the special occasion cock and the rather slothful work habits and industrial size tubs of lube; Donna, our Senior Correspondent, who took care of us when we were on the lam, and Bill, our Director of Security International, who always had Molly's back.

We've enjoyed getting to feel like we are part of an extended family, and to hear from our regular cast of commenters who have come, gone, and returned over the years.

Of course, we've also seen so many  of our fellow bloggers  slowly fade away over these three years: Who could forget inimitable Riff Dog (who apparently crashed and burned in dramatic cyber-style). And Mistress always had a thing for the Discerning Dom, who signed off a few months back. It reminds us that the natural life of this sort of enterprise is limited.

So after some consultation here at the UCTMW World HQ over the weekend, Mistress and Slave decided it was time to move on from the routine of our almost daily posts here.

Why?

Well we noticed we were both succumbing to the pressure of coming up with bloggable moments to entertain our followers. What was unique and titillating one week became a little routine and repetitive the next. So why not crank it up a notch. More blog fodder needed.

Maybe we jumped the shark with "Cougar Week"? 

In any event, while Mistress has no plans to end her search for the perfect addition to our empty nest - or some combination of lovers who might meet that elusive objective - it makes sense to us to back off from our current routine of posting "real time" developments here. Nature will take its course, without the pressure of a daily publishing deadline. Our goal is to do what feels right for us, wherever that takes us, but not with the pressure of entertaining a wider audience.

Does this mean you've heard the last of Mick and Molly?

Unlikely.

We have no immediate plans to delete this collection of smut, sarcasm, amateur photography, and political and pop culture commentary. I suspect there will be developments and topics that will cry out for a timely post. So don't erase your bookmark or delete us from your blog roll just yet, friends.

And expect to hear our snarky comments on your blogs in the months to come.

As for that far flung staff: your generous severance pay checks are in the mail, along with your COBRA notice. And like the Romney campaign, I've already cancelled those company Amex cards. Hope you aren't in a cab on the way home when you get you read this.
But remember: your non-competes still run for the next 12 months!


26 comments:

  1. Jumped the shark? Nice touch Mick.

    Sad - I really like reading your exploits, but your reasoning is sound, so I will keep you on the blog roll and hope over whenever you decide to share some more.

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    1. Thanks, Kitty. We'll keep following you too.

      Mick

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  2. Good luck to both of you - it's been great reading and on occasion, teasing, you.

    MissBehaviour (from the right side of the pond)

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  3. Haven't heard from you in a while MissBehavior. Glad to know you are stull miss behaving.

    Mick

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  4. Happy Anniversary!!

    Nooooo, don't go!!! i've spent many hours enjoying your please, and i'll sure miss knowing you're here for my reading pleasure.

    Hoping you'll be back soon and often.. but if not, take care. And come to the Kinky Bloggers Convention next March anyhow.

    hugs,

    aisha

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    1. keep us in the loop on that bloggers convention.

      mick

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  5. Oh no! UC and my morning coffee have been a tradition for sometime now, you'll sure be missed. Following your adventures was my way to be vicariously cuckold. I've enjoyed your last few "sex and politics" posts too.

    I'd love to read an update from time to time, and learn how mistress is doing with her search for the perfect FB. Best to you both, and thanks again.

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    1. AH, A LURKER. glad to hear you enjoyed. vicarious cuckolding can be fun too.

      Mick

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  6. All the best to you, Mick and Molly. I do hope that we hear from you from time to time... just so that we know that your lascivious behaviour hasn't gone by the wayside.

    Thanks for a most interesting blog, you two...

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    1. thanks, Harry. Glad Mistress was never tempted to subject my work-a-day cock to the ordeals you suffer through on a daily basis.

      Mick

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  7. While I completely understand your reasons, know you will be missed! You've been a part of my mornings and it's kinda like a friend moving away. Good luck and good adventures!

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  8. Well I must say that I didn't see that coming. I sort of get it - you don't want to feel like you perform for your blog, but on the other hand, I think you'd admit it adds a spice. That's the exhibitionist in you playing to the voyeur in us. Think you'll miss that exhibitionism?

    It might have jumped the shark a bit with cougar week (maybe the same with the Didi episode?)

    And can you really enforce a 12 month non-compete contract? I was totally hoping to snap up WC with his inimitable style and lube. WC, I'm sure we can work something out!

    I've loved reading and will look forward to hearing from you often, whether here or back at my place.

    -sin

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  9. thanks, Sin. Yes, I think there is an element of exhibitionism in what we all engage in through this medium. If we miss it too much, I suspect we will be sharing tidbits in the future. But maybe we need to let things develop more completely before we start spilling our beans in public.

    Mick

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  10. 3 years already? Ah, but I remember those first early days, talking to you and Mistress on the phone in clandestine fashion..the adventures you have been on!

    Take what time you need. I understand. I write from a different place...and a need to keep my dragons at a minimum...and yanno...there is another tentacle in the offing... :) *laughing*

    good luck in all your adventuring...and don't stay away *too* long!

    nilla

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  11. When I found your blog shortly after it started I was taken with a picture of Mlooy bent over a wodden table in the snow somewhere here out west

    I very much reminded me of an old friend of mine L

    Still the hottest picture you have ever published in my humble opinion

    I too was going through a rocky period in my marrage and Molly was ever so helpful in working me through it

    Thanks Molly

    And thanks Mick

    You have brightened my mornings for three years

    I look forward to finally meeting U2 nuts in December

    I suspect you will be back from tome to time or maybe even more often

    I hope so..........

    Thanks for the kind words Sin I will write something for you sometime

    But I am the ever lazy WC

    The sad but happy for Mick and Molly,

    Mike

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  12. BTW Would you publish that picture one more time?

    And you can publish the SOC too if you want but I know it would violate the editorial policy around here:)

    Be well you guys

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  13. Posting photos of the SOC might create a disturbance of the force, WC.

    Mick

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  14. All:
    this new phase is bittersweet. Candidly -- I will miss hearing the kind words from Mick each morning -- and at age 49 being a blog sex symbol has been a boost to me. A few things to clear up:
    1) WC: i know best of all how fab that SOC is -- publishing it would create an international incident. The FBI has their hands full at the moment.
    2) Yes, I will still seek the ONE who will complete our love triangle. There have been fits and starts -- all interesting in their own ways.
    3) We may be onto one at this moment who has not yet been written about. We determined that we need to take this on its own terms and go SLOW.
    4) We will still follow each of you. Those of you have become friends know how to find us. Please stay in touch.
    take care of yourself. stay safe and warm.
    love and all good things
    Molly

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  15. Mick and Molly - say it aint so!
    I have so enjoyed reading your blog over the years; I guess I must have found it not too long after you started. I will miss hearing about your empty nest adventures, your opinions on sex/politics, and your devotion to your local pussycats.
    As a resident of another River City (just up the 3C highway, in fact), it has often made me smile knowing you were just down the road.
    Hope you keep us updated.

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  16. thanks, Michelle. Glad to hear we've got a "neighbor" who's been paying attention. We won't disappear completely... just switch to a weekly or monthly update.

    Mick

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  17. Well U2 nuts,

    I still think you should sign off with a picture of the SOC:)

    Purely for egotistical reasons of course

    And maybe I could find some new blogger friends that way!!!!!!

    Now I can't wait to hear from Suzanne and Donna and Bill about this terrible development

    Because it is truly terrible for all your fans Mick

    I read your reasons

    But I enjoyed your posts whether or not they disclosed any any information about your sex life or not

    So I for one hope you will become bored without the blog

    And a little exhibitionism is good anyway!!!!!!!

    Be well U2 lunatics

    Mike









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  18. Molly & Mick,

    WTF???? What kind of a welcome back is this? I leave for a couple of weeks and return to this type of void?

    You've both meant the world to me and my two loves. Your sense of humor, friendship and support through difficult times will remain one of my life's most lasting memories.

    I have to stop, because I'm tearing.

    Please don't leave.

    Love,

    Suzanne

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  19. Dito Sue,

    WTF

    All of us have gone through hard times

    Sue and Donna most of all

    Molly none of us think you are a slut

    We all think you are a hero

    And a pure classy lady

    True a horny one but that is why we are all here!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Cause we are all horny MF's too!!!!!!

    Sue is right she goes away for a week and all this happens

    Sue you need to fly to River City right away and take your spoon to Micks bare bottom

    Seriously

    And Molly'

    We all love you

    Hope you two cum to your senses

    After all we do all have too much fun here than we have a fight to with our clothes on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Cum on guys

    Keep it up for the team!!!!!!

    We need you

    The bummed out

    ME










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  20. Molly & Mick

    My Mistress wife and I have enjoyed reading your blog, especially as your circumstances seem so close to ours - it was somehow empowering to read the experiences of people going through what we were feeling and experiencing ourselves.

    In fact it was from one of your posts that Mistress discovered AM, and now is gainfully engaged in finding her first lover!

    We hope you continue to blog at some level, it would be a real shame not to hear any more exploits from River City.

    All the best

    Mistress & Deni

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  21. Bugger, looks like one of my first comments on your blog may now be the last :(

    Many thanks for all the joy you've shared over the past few years, has been great to follow. Keep having fun and do share with us all on occasion - you do have a duty to your adoring public :)

    p
    x

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