Here
at the UCTMW World HQ we are getting used to a new rhythm in our life. Slave is now officially retired, and
working for some clients from home. But I’d be kidding you if I suggested this
is a full time “gig”. At this point it’s just 2 or so hours a day of my
professional work. A little community / political activity, and trying either
to be of service to Mistress or stay out of her way. After all, she still has
an (almost) full time gig, working for her clients out of the house too.
Yesterday my “service” involved setting
up a new computer for her in my role as the UCTMW IT Director. Monday it was a
trip to the Apple Store to get her lap top battery replaced. And I even baby-sat
for my cute grand kids yesterday.
But an article I saw in the Washington Post
last week brought up another potential activity for both of us… but more
Mistress than me. Mentoring! Should we offer to mentor others in the
“community”. The article (linked here)was by a
woman, inspired by the recent "Shades of Gray" movie, who placed an add on Craigslist offering to be a sexual mentor for
young men who want to learn how to please a woman.
Intrigued by the
verboten topic of older women showing younger men new paths to pleasure
and curious about the economic concept of sexual supply and demand — but
not necessarily to acquire an enthusiastic new lover — I placed an ad on
Craigslist in December:
Are
you looking for a sexual mentor?
If
you’re a younger male looking to connect and safely explore mutual sexual
interests with an older, experienced woman, let’s chat. I’m smart, sensitive,
open minded and thoroughly enjoy sex and its many permutations. Instead
of masturbating between the sheets at every opportunity, why not spend some
time with a skilled lover who will teach you how to please a woman?
Me:
40-something, sex-positive woman with a high sex drive, practices safer sex,
STD/STI-free.
You:
18+ with an insatiable sex drive, practices safer sex, STD/STI-free.
Just
imagine the possibilities.
Within 10 minutes,
my inbox was flooded with more than 120 replies. The ad was quickly flagged.
Of
course, the Washington, DC market has a broader potential for finding suitable
subjects for “mentoring” than our smaller River City market. But it’s something
for Mistress to consider as an alternative to the relatively shallow pool of
mostly married guys on AM. She certainly would have much to offer to a younger
man, wouldn’t she. In fact I think
she’d probably share the sentiment of the WP writer:
For most women I
know, exploring sexual pleasure was not something we were ever taught or
encouraged to do. I’m a sex-positive woman who understands consent,
practices safer sex and brings vast and varied experience to the bedroom. Sex
should be fun and playful. Every interaction, sexual or otherwise, is an
opportunity to learn — if you’re curious. I encourage exploration and advocate
for pleasure.
Yet, the erotic
frisson between an older woman and a younger man is alive and well, as
Christian’s much-older mentor Elena demonstrates in the book “Fifty Shades
Darker.” The concept of a woman striking out as a sexual pioneer is still very
much taboo, but the sexual appetites of younger men and older women are
closely matched in terms of stamina and spontaneity. Older women bring
confidence and years of practice to the bedroom. A woman who knows what she
wants and communicates that knowledge can be a huge turn-on. Combine that with
a young man’s
short refractory period, and you have the makings of mind-blowing
sex.
In my experience,
the big difference between an educational experience and robbing the cradle is
the erotic know-how a skilled woman offers. Imagine sexual mentorship as a
rite of passage, where partners discuss what turns them on and which boundaries
they are willing to push. With time and practice, they develop greater
cognizance and connection.
As
for me, I doubt there is much of a market for a lowly aging slave to offer
sexual mentoring services to would be Dommes in training. Now do I think
Mistress would approve. But maybe I could mentor would be male slaves / subs
looking to either find a Mistress to take them under their wings (or thighs);
or trying to be of better service to their Dommes or Mistresses.
Do
you think there would be a demand for that service?
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