Showing posts with label Fifty Shades Darker. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Fifty Shades Darker. Show all posts

Thursday, February 16, 2017

Mentoring?

Here at the UCTMW World HQ we are getting used to a new rhythm in our life.  Slave is now officially retired, and working for some clients from home. But I’d be kidding you if I suggested this is a full time “gig”. At this point it’s just 2 or so hours a day of my professional work. A little community / political activity, and trying either to be of service to Mistress or stay out of her way. After all, she still has an (almost) full time gig, working for her clients out of the house too.  

Yesterday my “service” involved setting up a new computer for her in my role as the UCTMW IT Director. Monday it was a trip to the Apple Store to get her lap top battery replaced. And I even baby-sat for my cute grand kids yesterday. 

But an article I saw in the Washington Post last week brought up another potential activity for both of us… but more Mistress than me.  Mentoring!  Should we offer to mentor others in the “community”.  The article (linked here)was by a woman, inspired by the recent "Shades of Gray" movie,  who placed an add on Craigslist offering to be a sexual mentor for young men who want to learn how to please a woman.

Intrigued by the verboten topic of older women showing younger men new paths to pleasure and curious about the economic concept of sexual supply and demand — but not necessarily to acquire an enthusiastic new lover — I placed an ad on Craigslist in December:
Are you looking for a sexual mentor?
If you’re a younger male looking to connect and safely explore mutual sexual interests with an older, experienced woman, let’s chat. I’m smart, sensitive, open minded and thoroughly enjoy sex and its many permutations.  Instead of masturbating between the sheets at every opportunity, why not spend some time with a skilled lover who will teach you how to please a woman?
Me: 40-something, sex-positive woman with a high sex drive, practices safer sex, STD/STI-free.
You: 18+ with an insatiable sex drive, practices safer sex, STD/STI-free.
Just imagine the possibilities.
Within 10 minutes, my inbox was flooded with more than 120 replies. The ad was quickly flagged.

Of course, the Washington, DC market has a broader potential for finding suitable subjects for “mentoring” than our smaller River City market. But it’s something for Mistress to consider as an alternative to the relatively shallow pool of mostly married guys on AM. She certainly would have much to offer to a younger man, wouldn’t she.  In fact I think she’d probably share the sentiment of the WP writer:

For most women I know, exploring sexual pleasure was not something we were ever taught or encouraged to do. I’m a sex-positive woman who understands consent, practices safer sex and brings vast and varied experience to the bedroom. Sex should be fun and playful. Every interaction, sexual or otherwise, is an opportunity to learn — if you’re curious. I encourage exploration and advocate for pleasure.
Yet, the erotic frisson between an older woman and a younger man is alive and well, as Christian’s much-older mentor Elena demonstrates in the book “Fifty Shades Darker.” The concept of a woman striking out as a sexual pioneer is still very much taboo, but the sexual appetites of younger men and older women are closely matched in terms of stamina and spontaneity. Older women bring confidence and years of practice to the bedroom. A woman who knows what she wants and communicates that knowledge can be a huge turn-on. Combine that with a young man’s short refractory period, and you have the makings of mind-blowing sex.
In my experience, the big difference between an educational experience and robbing the cradle is the erotic know-how a skilled woman offers. Imagine sexual mentorship as a rite of passage, where partners discuss what turns them on and which boundaries they are willing to push. With time and practice, they develop greater cognizance and connection.

As for me, I doubt there is much of a market for a lowly aging slave to offer sexual mentoring services to would be Dommes in training. Now do I think Mistress would approve. But maybe I could mentor would be male slaves / subs looking to either find a Mistress to take them under their wings (or thighs); or trying to be of better service to their Dommes or Mistresses.

Do you think there would be a demand for that service?


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