Mistress surprised me a bit when she pronounced that Tuesday would be a "cage day", for no apparent reason. She had no hot date planned with her lover Jay, or one of her "back-ups". Slave would not be in any perceived "danger zone" for temptation to display her cock to another.
But in retrospect, I may know the answer: Slave pushed back a bit when Mistress announced that on an upcoming Saturday night she had made a social engagement for us.
"But that may be the night when (my alma mater) plays the #1 team in the country, Mistress!"
Mistress was not amused. And I suppose that's what DVR's are for, right?
Slave needs to recall who is in charge here in moments like those.
In any event, the cage was mounted after some early morning wake-up sex with that hard steel ring assuring an extra hard cock.
Slave had a seminar to teach at in the morning. I wonder if my audience noticed me fidgeting a bit more than usual as I talked them through my power point crutch. Luckily no photos of me locked into the cage leaked into the presentation.
At the end of the day I was happy to worship Mistress's lush, clean shaven folds, and grateful when she elected to spring me loose rather than condemn me to an extended sentence on lock down.
But the real subject of today's blog is not my whining, but an article I noticed last week on California's new "consent" sex law, designed to assure that female students (and others) agree to any sex acts with horny frat boys (and others). Here' is the article: California's "Yes Means Yes" Law
AS a father of some college students, I am all for protecting them from non-consensual sexual interactions. (Or any sexual interactions for that matter!). But you can't help appreciate the humor of a law and policies designed to elicit a "yes" every time you escalate from a chaste kiss to more robust slap and tickle, so to speak. Here is a taste of some college policies explaining what and how to do it, forst from Oregon State University:
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Consent Can Be Fun!
In fact, many people find
it sexy. This is the fun part of sex; you get to talk about what you want to do
and how you want to do it. You can be creative! Some examples of what your partner
might like to hear are:
- “Wanna have sex?”
- “I’d really like to _____. Would you be into that?”
- “Would _____ feel good to you right now?”
These
phrases are only examples. To find the best option, ask your partner what
phrase(s) they find attractive when being asked for consent. It can become part
of foreplay! Remember, communication is the best sexual technique and is the
easiest way for both people to get what they want from the sexual experience.
Make Consent Sexy
▷ Do you like when I do this?
▷ What would you like me to do for you?
▷ It makes me so hot when you…me there. What makes you hot?
▷ Do you want me to (kiss/touch…)?
Make Consent Fun
▷ Baby, you want to make a bunk bed: me on top, you on
bottom?
▷ May I pleasure you with my tongue?
▷ Would you like to try an Australian kiss? It’s like
a French kiss, but “Down Under.”
▷ I’ve got the ship. You’ve got the harbor. Can I
dock for the night?
I must say that I would never had been so glib with my high school or college girlfriends as I fumbled through those first, clumsy sexual interactions.
But then I got thinking, what about all those Domme inclined college girls at Berkley or USC just coming into their own, wanting to let their kink fly. How would this game be played when they found some potentially submissive young stud from Oxnard and decided to have their way with them? Clearly a "safe word", that authorizes a "yes" unless it is affirmatively used is not in the spirit of these new rules.
"Sweetie, do you mind modeling these leg-irons for me?"
Honeybuns, wouldn't you like to see if you fit inside that little cage under my bed?"
"Don't you think my pedicure is nice? Wouldn't you like to suck on my toes and see what they taste like with that new shade of polish?"
"Wouldn't these clothes pins look lovely on your nipples?"
"Your cock is so nice, but don't you think it would be even prettier with this cute little cage wrapped around it?"
"It's called a strap-on, silly. Would you like to show you where it goes?"
Of course, there's always a contract, like Molly and mick have. That's the ultimate way to assure informed consent.
