We woke to the big political news of the day, mining the internet, twitter and facebook for all the gossip of the new VP candidate on the GOP side. Picking the Wisconsin wunderkind best known for his cutmageddon budget plan had the Republican faithful in the type of fawning tizzy not seen since Bob Dole picked Jack Kemp to put a little juice in his campaign in 1996.
Even J got into the act, texting with both of us about the big news, and pointing out Ryan's uncanny resemblance to this 60's era TV star:
As the moment for the big Ryan roll-out approached on Saturday morning, we realized the window for wake-up sex would be closing soon, so the computers were tucked away, and Slave got down to worshiping those clean shaven folds that had seen plenty of action the evening before over at J's love shack.
"My back's a little sore, Slave, so go easy on me....."
"Too much cock riding?"
"Could be....."
Awww.... poor Mistress.
After we both enjoyed the fruits of our Saturday morning engagement, it was back to the TV . The ponderous musical selection seemed to spring from the golden trumpet of the Angel Moroni himself. Someone tweeted that it was actually the theme from that old movie "Air Force One." Sadly, Harrison Ford was not in the house to make the whole enterprise look "presidential".
We were amused when, in his effort to show enthusiasm, the former Massachusetts Governor and personal savior of the Olympic movement (with plenty of our tax dollars) introduced his newly anointed running mate as "the next President of the United States...."
"Is he already throwing in the towel .... and launching Ryan's 2016 campaign?"
But once the actual bloviating began, we'd had enough. We were off on a nice morning bikeride, after which Mistress took the girls on a "back to college" shopping binge. Slave had his work cut out restaining and sealing our deck. Every now and then I have to switch to field slave duties.
It wasn't until around 4 pm that we were able to reunite in the Executive Suite. Luckily, both girls had plans and we had no schedule. We settled in for a long late afternoon nap, followed by some more worship and fucking, with no political news to distract us.
Nice. Very nice.
Later we took dinner at a new hipster Taco joint in an old city neighborhood , with a southwest ambiance that will be the closest thing to our mountain hideaway we will see this month. We had hoped J could join us, but he got sucked into helping his parents move this weekend. But that did get us into some "cuckold / threeway" protocol issues.
"J says he let slip to his Mom that he's seeing "someone", and now his Mom says he should bring that "someone" over to meet them, Slave...."
Dinner with the boyfriend's parents? Now that would be interesting.
"That's OK by me, Mistress....."
"The problem is, how to explain all this.... he says they are pretty conservative and might not get the 'she's married but it's ok with her husband' thing....."
"Ahhhh..... that could be a little dicey....."
"J says his Mom would immediately start asking all sorts of questions.... and it is a small town....."
Yes, it is. Too many connections that cam easily be made. As our kids would say.... "awkward."
Somehow J will have to finesse this for a while with Mom and Dad. Do any of our readers have any tips on how to deal with this delicate issue of social protocol? Is there a potential kinky version of "Meet the Parents" in all this?
Should I send a letter to Dear Abby? Or Miss Manners?
Very awkward. I'm sure you could handle the situation with your usual graceful aplomb, but this is one introduction I'd avoid.
ReplyDeleteFunny...I woke up with a sore back this morning also. Didn't stop me though.
Suzanne
Or just lie..........
ReplyDeleteAnd say Molly is a geologist who spends most of her time in Africa:)
Or one the the Stan's
Too too funny
No I agree with Suzanne
Don't go there.......
The for once conservative,
WC
There is a black flag flying at this beach meaning "Dangerous conditions, absolutely no swimming". J got himself in this situation and is gonna have to get himself out of it alone. May the force be with J.
ReplyDeleteShades
I'd avoid that one too. It's certainly was for me, the most challenging part of being in an unconventional relationship. Dealing with family issues. People that come to mean so much to us, but that we can't share with our family.
ReplyDeleteI can share some first hand dynamics in this area, as it was something that I've also had to decide how to handle for the past 10 years or so.
For the 4.5 first years that Paladin and I were together, all his family knew about me was that I was 'his friends wife'... and nothing else. They knew the 3 of us were close friends and did things together, but that's it.
On my side, it was much easier. My dear step son had grown up with his single dad in a triad with a married couple for some 30 years. It was a few years after we were together that we began having a male 3rd. We had two before Paladin, and they were (and still are) considered dear members of the family. And my step son came to know both of our prior 3rds (and is still very good friends with them too) and then Paladin best as they both worked together to help us that horrid year we had to move 4 times. So when I had my breakdown, and the VA said I should go to Houston for PTSD treatment he agreed that it would be best for me to move with Paladin to TX. He knew that our 4th, C would be there for his dad as well. But I think this sort of acceptance is pretty rare. He did amazingly enough to me, manage to explain it all to his sister (who can be very judgmental) in such a way that had her agreeing with him. She did not know anything about Paladin before this however, but she does love me dearly, and trusts what her brother said. And to be frank, I was sure I would lose her in this. That she would be mad and say that I betrayed her father. I agonized over it terribly.. and we all know, it could have gone that way. *smiles* She says, her love for me knew that this was for the best. 0.o And we did have a wonderful goodbye at Christmas. Now, they both write and send me postcards, and they still love me! I plan on having them both here for a visit when we can arrange it.
But on Paladin's side, it's been much, much more tricky. They, like J's family, are VERY traditional. If things had not changed, then they would not have known any different. But now, with our lives here moving forward, it's all changed. It was only the day before we moved to TX that I met them briefly, and when they visited in May that they got to know me at all, and I them. And I stayed upstairs in my own room for the week that they were here. It was a very difficult week, but it was worth it to keep his folks okay with the progress of things. We wanted to be respectful of them. We did very little touching at all. But it was obvious that we are moving forward in a new life together, and I think his parents get that.
That will not happen with Mick and Molly however.. so that, is the downside. I wish all of you the best in it. You already know it's difficult with your girls. But hey, maybe a polyamory book ala'
50 Shades will come out and hit the top 10 and give all the 'nilla's out there pause to think that maybe, having diff sorts of relationship arrangements isn't so bad. We can all hope huh?
Best Wishes. loved catching up on your adventures!
Mystress