Mistress and slave have been working our way through the marital distress that slave caused. (Review: I had been in e contact with a former affair partner without Mistress's knowledge or consent, which unduly distressed her.) Today we have our third appointment with a male/female therapist tag team, and it could be our last.
They've counseled "transparency", and we have certainly followed their advice on that subject. But they may be surprised at the progress we have made, and even want to take credit for it. While I am sure that talking with them has not hurt, and may have actually been some help in improving our communications on a tough subject, we have not been particularly "transparent" with them.
We have not shared with them some of the more unconventional therapies that Mistress and slave have deployed in our ongoing effort to rebuild and maintain a trusting marital relationship, such as:
1. Corporal punishment- almost daily cropping of slave's sorry ass, which has left slave a little bruised and certainly repentant. Ouch!
2. More Cage Time- Slave has worn his cage daily at work, a not so subtle reminder of Mistress's control over "her cock", which no doubt provides some reassurance to Mistress.
3. Even More Frequent Sex- Our "two a day" rate has certainly increased since these new therapies began. When Mistress reported to her ex-boy friend last week that she has sex almost every day with her husband, he expressed amazement. Apparently his wife is a "once a monther." Bummer.
4. Frequent Reminder's of Slave's Lowly Status-- Mistress has been more vigilant that has been typical in reminding her slave how lucky he is to be sharing her bed, and that I should be careful or she will go more actively shopping for a more worthy cock.
Message received, Mistress.
So before we part ways with our therapists, should we share with them our unusual therapies for overcoming a marital crisis? Or should we just let them think that they are "miracle workers"?
I vote for telling them everything. After all they are sworn to secrecy. Of course I'm only kidding. It was my wife's therapist that helped her take control of our relationship. He suggested, without using the term FLR, that she take charge. It worked. I'm now in panties and she is in charge!
ReplyDeleteDaily pegging to remind you of your place?
ReplyDeleteI think Mistress would think pegging would be a reward, and not a punishment.
DeleteMy wife is putting me through daily spanking therapy now with her bath brush.. said my behavior needs to improve..she seems to be enjoying it very much!!!
ReplyDeleteThat's cheaper and more effective than pychotherapy!
DeleteAre you paying them for the pleasure of sharing this info? Also, depending on the state, I’d be careful. Wouldn’t want to talk too much about disciplinary impact with a mandatory reporter (of suspected physical abuse) who is kink clueless. That could get messy. If you want to tell them, do it after the therapeutic relationship has been cleanly and completely severed, ideally in writing. Be careful out there, you crazy kids!
ReplyDeleteThanks. I'm not sure how helpful they can be with only half the story.
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