Slave is safely caged and languishing in a hotel room on our nation's capitol tonight, longing for Mistress's embrace. Sadly, Mistress is back home, still pissed (and properly so) about my indiscretions. I am waiting for her good night call, after she spent an evening with an old high school friend, quaffing Margaritas.
We remain on the road to recovery (I hope) though I have a lingering fear that I may find the locks changed when I return to River City on Sunday after a visit with my daughter.
And yet.... before leaving town we had a few more days of very hot reconciliation sex, draining the swamp that represents my dwindling supply of an old guy's "natural juices" reserve. At least this brief separation will allow a period of rejuvenation.
Part of the "hotness" included furtive mutterings about how she should be on the lookout for a more robust cock, that would allow her to keep me caged on a long term basis, while still fulfilling her own "needs".
One thing we did earlier this week is meet with a a tag team of therapists (one male, one female) who can help us work through Mistress's concerns about her slave's fidelity. It was our first session, a sort of "getting to know you" discussion about our history together and the problem that cropped up in recent weeks. But Mistress and I have privately discussed how far our "full disclosure" should go....
"So should I tell them I'm wearing a cock cage, Mistress?"
"Why is that relevant, slave? Let's not lose focus!"
"What about the whole cuckolding thing?"
"I don't think we need to go there just yet, slave....."
Of course, she's right. If we "open the kimono" that far, the two therapists will be so focused on selling the movie rights to our tawdry story that they will be no help at all to us!
It's a shame we can't find some therapists with more of a "kink friendly" bent. Any rcommendations, dear readers?
At the very least, I'm counting on our Western Correspondent to prescribe something more practical to help Mistress get her slave back in line. (or at least get her off while I am out of town).
But here's the good news: Mistress has allowed me to remove the cage overnight, as long as I put it back on in the AM.
"But no masturbation, slave....."
That is clearly not a problem.
I hope the therapy goes well for you guys. My Mistress' therapist is actually the one that suggested she should take the lead in the bedroom. Well, she did, and here I am pantied and caged! Not sure if that is what he imagined. Gotta love therapists.
ReplyDeleteInteresting that it was the therapist that helped your wife embrace her inner Domme.
DeleteI’ve been following your blog from the start. We went to a vanilla therapist for 5 years, and never got deep into issues of sex. There were a lot of vanilla issues to sort out (we are well into 40s and been together 20+ years), but sex advice was never more than “what ever you guys agree to is OK, but don’t do anything too crazy, OK?” We’ve been around block a few times and eventually needed more than that. The vanilla therapist helped with a rough patch and we had to move on.
ReplyDeleteSoooo, we’ve been seeing a kink friendly therapist for 6 months. I was skeptical it would make a difference but it has. We are in a Big Midwestern City by a Big Lake with resources. I was also skeptical of therapist in late 20s but she brought a fresh perspective.
Most couples have vanilla issues to work out. But if alternative sex practices (even totally consensual nonmonagomy) are an important part of relationship, it’s important to have a therapist willing to help with this.
Virtually everything two crazy professional, fallen Catholics could lay on table has been at this point, and we’ve found some new outfits, much to our surprise.
If you want more information off line, let me know how to send.
Thanks for your comments. Glad you enjoy the blog. Hopefully our therapy will not last too long with these two. I am not sure how they would handle us disclosing some of the kinkier aspects of our relationship, including cock cages, cropping and cuckolding.
DeleteWe’ve had lots of therapists over the many, many years. Most of them are open minded enough to encourage long standing couples to “experiment” and I’ve yet to freak any of them out, that I am aware of. But most of them also do not want to encourage anything that sounds “risky” in a conventional sense and most are just not comfortable with any details. My wife (and me too) have had some “shame” issues that have caused some anxiety at “disclosing”. We found a sex positive kinky therapist who considers “poly” to be one of her therapy interests. That led to a lot of fear about judging going away. All that being said, sometimes you slog through the vanilla issues to stabilize things first.
DeleteYou might find the following resources helpful:
ReplyDeletehttps://www.ncsfreedom.org/key-programs/kink-aware-professionals-59776
emma-schmidt.com/
Also...considering where things have been going...is there any consideration being given to making that chastity cage a bit more secure, i.e. with a PA piercing?