Q. and A. for Molly and mick

Yes, we confess. It's been a little vanilla this winter in the Collins household, compared to years past. Mistress has a no active lover to distract her, which has left Mick without a whole lot to write about. We still have out almost every day "wake up" sex going, which puts us ahead of most married couples these days, regardless of age or demographic group.

And that's not counting the regular worship in the afternoon, and/or those extra digitally induced orgasms Mistress acquires while we lounge on our couch in the evening watching the latest on Netflix, or maybe episodes of "Victoria". Heck, it's clear we have more sex than Vic and Albert did, and they had all those kids! But I suspect our readers don't really want a "sex blog" that focuses on our everyday sexual routines, let alone TV reviews.

But when we get questions.....  that gets slave to fire-up the keyboard  and break this blogging draught  So here goes:

Q. Are you still switching for 2 hours every Sunday?  If so would either of you like to reduce or increase that frequency?

We still "celebrate" switch day, which was called for in our original contract, but rarely for as much as two hours.  Switch Day activities typically involve slave "torturing" Mistress with her Magic Wand vibrator, culminating in Mistress "begging" her slave for permission to cum. After this ritual, Slave is entitled to "have his way" with Mistress.  Always gratifying.  This usually happens after lounging in bed for a while with the morning papers (yes, we still get the Times and the local rag delivered to our door, a throw back to an earlier age.... supplemented by the Washington Post on the web.). After our sexual rituals, there's usually time for a bike ride, then a late breakfast, with Mistress cooking her highly stylized scrambled eggs. (Slave does the cooking the rest of the week).  So that's what "switch day" has evolved to.  It's a very satisfying ritual. and at least from Mick's POV, there's no need to extend it to other days of the week, or additional hours.

In the past, there might have been a little bondage during the big Magic Wand tease, or some cropping.  Older entries here would reveal that history.

Mistress says she has no need to add to our supplement our switch day activities. (Heck, she gets off pretty easy, doesn't she?)  But maybe our readers (or this questioner) would like to make some suggestions to "spice things up".  Consider the comments section our "suggestion box".

Q. In what way does mick express his subjugation to and admiration of  Molly? In what way would either of you like to see that change?

Here are a few ways in which mick tries to express his subjugation and admiration:

• Daily orgasm inducing worship.
• Asking for permission to cum when we have conventional sex.
• Admiring facebook posts referring to the "lovely Molly" on our vanilla facebook pages.
• Willingly submit to her occasional use of the riding crop to remind me "who's boss" and / or as consequences for a  faux pas. 
• Willingly submit to the occasional "pegging", another reminder of "who's boss."
• Wearing a cock cage when Mistress is meeting a lover, or has some special concern about who I might be encountering during the course of my day.

I suspect Mistress would like her slave to wear that cage more frequently, but relents when I whine about how uncomfortable it can be, particularly on a cold day, when my "junk" gets all tight and wants to hide from the low temperatures. 

Mistress adds that she should probably be wielding the crop and ass fuck me more!

Q. How would you describe your ideal Bull Dom relationship?

While Mistress has had several lovers since we embarked down the cuckold path some years ago, it's fair to say none of them have been of the "Bull Dom" type.  Most have been her age or younger, and there have been several "one offs" ( for various reasons such as bad chemistry or freak outs), and others that lasted months or even years. But none really got the concept of cuckolding in the sense of dominating the wife and / or the subtle or unsubtle humiliation of the cuck.  Most either didn't get why some married guy would let someone else have access to h is hot wife, or simply saw me as a peer who shared at least one thing in common. 

Our whole fascination with the cuckold concept arose from some interactions Mistress had with an old college beau who found her on facebook.  There was talk of spankings and bondage between them that got both of our motors running. But nothing came of it. When that guy "ghosted" after Molly said "put up or shut up", I wrote a "want add" for a "Part Time Dom" that would describe a fantasy relationship. Here's the link:

Want Ad for Part Time Dom

Of course, this description is fantastical.  The tricky part in any relationship (cuck or vanilla) is discovering mental and physical chemistry that can lead who knows where. Mistress is a busy girl who, in the real world,  would not have the time and energy for all that communication and engagement described in the "ad".  But the concept is hot, isn't it?  

At the least, a "Bull Dom" relationship would require someone who can establish that mental and physical chemistry with Mistress, and then use his own imagination, skills and powers of persuasion to convince her to surrender to her more submissive impulses. For slave's part, I would certainly enjoy witnessing it happen. But it could be quite a challenge, which may explain why that mythical "Bull Dom" we have sought has never materialized.  But a Hot wife and her submissive hubby can dream, can't they?

Hope this answers your questions, dear reader!