Q. and A. for Molly and mick (follow-up):

Hope you enjoyed our initial round of Q. and A.  I know Mistress was happy that her slave prepared some early morning reading for her. It provides something to accompany that initial wave of wake-up worship that (if done satisfactorily) leads to some wake-up gratification for her slave.  But our initial answers  generated some "follow up" questions. Unlike Sarah Hucka-Sans,  or her boss, we always indulge follow up questions!

Q. That part-time Dom want ad could have been written for a single woman.  There's no mention of a husband, let alone a husband. Are you looking for (a) a Dom lover for Molly, or (b) a Bull / Dom who will both control her and take an active role in the cuckold dimension of your relationship?

Interesting observation, dear reader. That want ad was written in the early stages of the blog, when Mistress and slave first began exploring what all this meant.  The contract we signed  came from a form found on the internet, with major revisions by us after some "negotiating". It allowed Mistress to take lovers, and we discovered that the concept gave us both a visceral thrill. But I don't think either of us had thought through the additional dimension of "cuckolding" at the time.

Before answering your question, Mistress and slave have spent some time (in and out of bed) discussing how best to respond.

At this point,  I think either (a) or (b) would appeal to Mistress. It's fair to say that Mistress would enjoy developing a relationship with either a Dominant lover who was just neutral on the Cuckold aspect of engaging with a married woman, or a Bull / Dom (as you describe it) who would exercise increasing control over her, and, as part of that control, exercise control over her slave / husband. But I think both of us would see (b) as the preferred situation.

Out contract has a clause that allows Mistress to essentially "assign" various rights to another person, male or female. So whether you look at Mistress's rights to dominate her slave as "assignable", or look at it from the point of view of a dominant lover becoming her Master, including  the right to her "property". either way, her dominant lover would have inherent powers over her husband as well.

That's getting a little too legalistic, isn't it?

Let's just say that both of us think that the concept of a Dominant lover who took more control over Mistress and her slave is compelling.  It's sort of the "holy grail" of the cuckold relationship, but easier to talk or fantasize about than actually accomplish.  As Mistress put it when we reflected on one encounter more than a year ago where slave was required to provide a service to one of her lover's that I had never performed before, "I did like the idea of him humiliating you in that way slave. It was very hot."

Q. Please tell me from both Molly and mick's perspective your ideal scenario's with a  Bull / Dom who "get's it" and is very comfortable with the cuckold dynamic?  What would the ideal scene entail?

Let's start by noting that furtive imaginings can come crashing down when confronted with the complications of a real life experience. Actually engaging in these types of scenarios requires a level of comfort and attraction for Molly that can take a while to achieve, and is hardly guaranteed.  That said, we've discussed this some, both in and out of the "throws of passion".  Here are some things that would be appealing to both of us.

• An evening at home might begin with slave in his cage, required to display it for her lover's amusement, and slave's humiliation. Maybe Mistress's lover would take possession of the key to his cage on these occasions, to remind all who is in charge.
• Slave might be required to prepare  and serve dinner while Molly and her lover relax in our living room, enjoying some wine. Kissing, fondling optional. Molly might even be required to give her lover as blow job as slave observes.
• Handcuffs, collars, or other emblems of submission might be worn by Molly or slave at various stages of the evening. States and manner of dress (or undress) could also be dictated.
• Slave might be required to "prime the pump" by performing fluffing duties for Mistress and / or her lover.
• Molly likes the idea of being "taken" while her slave is forced to watch, preferably bound and unable to interfere as she is ravaged and brought to orgasm.  
• Molly also likes the idea of being comfortably bound and teased to orgasm. Begging optional.
• Spankings for defiant or mischievous attitudes or behavior would be a welcome part of her lover's effort to "tame" her and win her submission.
• slave might be sent to an adjoining bedroom, forced to listen to his wife and her lover as they enjoy one another's company until morning. Of course, slave would be available to serve coffee on demand. or Breakfast in bed. 
• There might be occasions when Molly and her lover spend the night alone somewhere, and Molly later describes their encounters in explicit detail.
• As the relationship progressed,, and Mistress's lover took on  more control of the relationship, he might establish rules for Mistress and slave's sexual encounters, including frequency, forms of intercourse, and slave's chastity. 

Obviously, these are just some possible scenarios. Presumably any Bull / Dom lover would bring many of his own "perverse" ideas to the table that would earn even deeper submission from both Molly and her slave.

Hope this answers your questions.