Happy Holidays with Our Cuckold Meme of the Week

Hope all of our readers are enjoying the holidays with families, friends and lovers.

Mistress and slave have been in touch with a "gentleman" out west who has taken an interest in us (well really in her, slave is simply an accessory). We've been exchanging some emails in recent weeks that have gotten increasingly salacious, including some commands to test whether we be suitably submissive should we ultimately get together at our SW hideaway some day.

He's sent us a few illustrations of what he has in mind should he decide to come visit and exercise more direct control.  This is one of them.

Cuckolding on Cable

Hi dozens of followers- Mistress and slave are still here, though we are going through a bit of a dry spell on the cuckolding front.  At least we have the long holiday break to look forward to! After lingering here in River City much longer than we would prefer, we will be off to our SW hideaway in the new year for some skiing.

But today we are pointing our our discovery of something than many of you may already know about: a full blown cuckold sub-plot on Shameless,  a Showtime show we have never dipped into.  The story line deals with a foxy 40's something college professor who takes on with "Lip", one of her students.  Their first encounter is in her office ( matinee) , and then he shows up at her house to complete the double header.  He spends the night, only to be "discovered" by her husband, returning from a business trip.  Of course, the joke is on Lip, because the hubby was in on his wife's dalliance.  After greeting his wife with a kiss, he good naturedly offers to cook the two love birds crepes for breakfast.  This sounds just like some mornings at our house a few years back, when I served coffee in bed to Mistress's lover Jay.

Subsequent episodes (found on you tube like the excerpt above) have the 3-ple going to a party together, and the professor and her young lover attending an academic conference in Indianapolis.

All of this is an entertaining diversion, but makes me realize that maybe we've been silly to reject out of hand some of the much younger suitors Mistress has drawn over the years.  As a general rule, Mistress has excluded "men" who are our daughters' ages as not good suitable fit. Was that a mistake? Could a "boy-toy" be the remedy for  our cuckolding dry spell?

Cuckolding On Christmas Eve

Yet another example of cuckolding going mainstream, with the very hot Scarlett Johansson in the role of "hot wife".

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Looking for (kinky) America....

Mistress and slave are on the road, passing through the flatlands of Kansas, on the way to our SW hideaway. Our daily wake up sex came in the pre-dawn hours.

Last night we came to ground in Abilene, home of Dwight Eisenbower, in  a classic "no tell Motel", reserved via Travelocity. The friendly clerk handed me a key without even asking for an ID or credit card.  My guess is cash would have worked too.

Later we went to dinner at a joint we had been introduced to by a local policeman on a prior trip,  Mr. K's Farmhouse,  had been a favorite of the former President, the type of straight shooter who might have had an affair with his WWII WAC driver, but would never have paid off a porn-star or bragged about "grabbing her by the pussy".

One feature of this place is the collection of paddles.  Tradition is that when you come to celebrate your birthday, your waitress will give you at least one stroke after the staff sings you "happy birthday". We actually saw this little ritual, involving a pre-teen boy who collected a few strokes.

So I had to ask our charming 20's something waitress sporting an "I Like Ike" button,  "So if I told you it was my wife's birthday, you'd give her a swat?"

"Sure.  But only if she said it was OK."

Mistress blushed at the thought.

I guess I was fortunate that she didn't remember that we had just celebrated my birthday.

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Happy Birthday from the Dowager Domme!

Over the years, we've made some joking references to Mistress's Mother, the "
Dowager Domme".  She's known here for her kinky shoe collection and severe dressing style, which are evocative of a "she who must be obeyed" self-image. The DD is now past 80, and still working full time.  She can also drive Mistress a little batty, because, as many controlling mother's can do, she knows all the bad buttons to push.

So I had some trepidations when Mistress called me on her way home from his weekly Saturday lunch with the DD.

"Slave, you won't believe the birthday present my mother gave me to give you! "

"Really?"

The DD doesn't usually give her seemingly useless son-in-law  a birthday gift.

Soon Mistress was home, brandishing the DD's birthday gift.  It's a braided leather lasso, no doubt some sort of antique from an exotic journey, that I had seen hanging on the wall of her den (along with some penis gourds of various impressive dimensions, that she had persuaded some New Guinea natives to sell her).

"She said she saw you admiring it when we were over for dinner a few weeks ago.....She figured it would make a great gift...."

I wonder how we can put this to something more than a decorative use?

Friday Morning Tease

Friday was one of those atypical mornings here at the UCRMW World HQ where Mistress has to be out the door early..... an hour earlier than her slave.  Bummer.  It was announced the night before that slave would not be getting his usual dose of wake-up sex because of that earlier departure time.

"Sorry slave.  You're just going to have to wait for this afternoon.....and then only if you're lucky!"

"Understood, Mistress."

So as Mistress was getting ready for her early work engagement, slave loitered in our bed, reading the Times and surfing other news sources before heading to the shower.

But there was a distraction.

Mistress was parading around in her black tights and boots, with a black bra to match.

Very distracting.  I was almost tempted to take matters into my own hands. So to speak.

But that would be wrong.  Wouldn't it?

I tried not to think about Mistress in those hot black tights for the rest of the day.

And, fortunately, when I arrived home from work a little early on Friday afternoon, Mistress was in a very indulgent mood.

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It's Back..... Tights Season!

Temperatures dropped precipitously this week here in River City.  It means turning on the heat for the first time here at our new perch over the Ohio River, and a chilling halloween for the cute grandkids.

But there is a bonus for slave.  The kick-off of tights season.  Those of you who have followed our adventures over the years know that one of slave's favorite fetishes is when Mistress coats those long sexy legs with some of her signature black tights.  So when we went on a brief, rainy  road trip yesterday I was treated to Mistress stretching those long legs out right next to me, in an lengthy taunt.  

Very distracting.

It brought to mind some previous photos on my cyber library, posted here previously, but certainly worth a review. Like this one when Mistress stopped by my old office for some mid-day worship:

Or this one, when Mistress reclined on our bed before a night out on the town (or was it after a night out on the town?)

At least this gives me something to look forward to as the remaining leaves fall and we hunker down for what could be a long winter.

Mistress Completes an "Assignment", with slave's Help

Mistress has been in touch with a gentleman from a town north of here  encountered on Collarspace. He's an experienced Dom who may have some potential for scratching that submissive itch Mistress has so far found unsatisfied.

We talked to him earlier this week and Mistress conceded that some sparks may have flown.  Experience tells us to remain skeptical. Yet open to the potential.

As a prelude to a meeting, this gentleman asked Mistress to complete a "BDSM checklist" to get a sense of her interests and limits. "I want Mick to complete one too", he added in an email to her which linked the questionnaire.

Initially, Mistress found the questionnaire a little daunting.

"It's pretty detailed slave, it could take me an hour or more!"

I printed the form out and reviewed it.  Yes, pretty detailed. Respondent is required to identify experience and preferences in response to myriad categories of conduct and equipment, with responses ranging from "hard limit", "curious, "likes" to "Love".

But slave, always dutiful, offered to help her complete the "checklist", running through the many  options to gage her reaction and help her complete her "assignment".

It starts with "Role Identified", ranging from "Submissive, Dominant" to "Switch, Fetishist".

"Well I may be Domme to you slave, but I guess for this purpose, say "submissive".

After all that's what this little adventure is all about.

Some of the "sex" categories were easy to answer.

"Vaginal"... "advanced "experience and "loves" was the natural response.

But "anal"?  She identified as a "beginner" and only "tolerates".  Not quire a "hard limit", but close.

"Rimming /anal licking"?  Ick.  That was a "hard limit".

What about "Sexual Body Fluids / wearing"?

"Huh....What's that slave?"

"I think some guys like cuming on a woman's breast, Mistress...."

"I'm not Monica Lewinsky", she huffed.

I put that down as a "hard limit" too.

When it came to various forms of "threesomes", Mistress was down as "curious/like", but was a "hard limit" when it came to "gang bang". Apparently three (maybe 4) is the limit.

In the bondage categories, Mistress was open to all the means of restraint, from full body, to rope, metal, leather, or "mental", whatever that is.  But not for more than 1 hour at a time. None of that overnight stuff for her.  All this talk about Mistress in bondage made me dip back into the archives for this illustration.  I think those cuffs are still around here somewhere.

Mistress enlightened me to a few things she was open too: Forced Orgasms.  Forced Masturbation. Collar and Leash. Orgasm control/ denial. Discrete Public Play. Genital Worship. "Struggling/Resistance"

All those got put down as "Curious" or "like", clearly opening some doors.  But no "hypnosis", or "body weight control".

"I can take care of that myself, slave."

Mistress was not into the "role play" category.  Other than for cuckolding scenarios.
So there were "hard limits" to things like "Kidnapping", "Doctor/Nurse/Patient" or "Boss/Secretary".

"What's the point of make believe, slave?"

Likewise, Mistress was not into most varieties of "S&M".  Yes to spanking, but hard limits for creepier stuff like "face slapping", "genital torture" or "choking", let alone "water torture".  I wonder if Dick Cheney played a role in designing this "checklist".

When it came to equipment, Mistress was a "curious" or "like" to things like crops and floggers, but a "hard limit" to "clubs" or genital weights. And a very hard limit to "hooks", whether of the vaginal or anal variety.

"Creepy, slave.  Very creepy."

We will be sending Mistress's responses to her potential Dom by snail mail on Monday.

"Don't forget slave....he wants you to fill one out too."

Hmmm.  I guess I will just follow orders, like a good slave.

All Dressed Up With Somewhere to Go

Mistress and slave have been in a dress down phase in the last couple of years. My semi-job, after retirement, rarely requires me to wear a tie, let alone a suit.  My closet has been reduced to only two: available for weddings and funerals.

Likewise, Mistress's current business does not require suits, hose  or other overly polished looks.

So it was rare that on Saturday night we were headed out for an evening affair sponsored by one of her clients. I was informed that I would wear a suit and tie. And she unearthed an older but very elegant dress to wear from the depths of her still generous closet.

But of course, an elegant dress deserves a likewise elegant foundation.

"What do you think, slave", she asked, as she called attention to the undergarment she had selected.

"Wow.  Nice Mistress.  Lovely."

I snapped a picture as she posed to examine her selection in our bedroom mirror.

And of course, Mistress was the loveliest woman in the room on Saturday, the ballroom of our local historic music hall. She turned more than a few heads, men and a few women.

My good fortune was that she came home with me, and slept the night in that fetching lingerie.

Autumnal Update: New Address for UCTMW World Headquarters

It's been a busy fall here in River city.  Mistress and slave packed up the UCTMW "home office", got rid of much detritus, and have escaped to a new venue: a river's edge apartment in our semi-bustling downtown. It's a big but unexpectedly pleasant change from our three floor rambling old house that we called our HQ (at least some of the time) over the last 15 years.

Suddenly freed of leaves to rake and quirky and unexpected  maintenance issues to resolve, it's given us more time for afternoon walks along our riverfront, and evenings re-introducing ourselves to restaurants and bars that we had avoided over the years as a little too far afield. We've also had more time for sex!  We actually accomplished the elusive "daily double" two days in a row over the weekend.  (What else are you going to do when the local NFL squad is in competition for the hallowed title for worst team in the nation? We shall under-come!)

And while the "side dish" situation has remained dormant, it has not been for lack of trying now that we have "settled in" to our new, downsized digs.  We have switched back on Mistress's OKCupid profile, and remain listed on Collarspace.  (If you do OKCupid, check her out at "Molly Collins")

But so far, only the typical losers and / or  liars have crossed Mistress's radar screen:

Example 1:  a guy who connects with us via Collarspace talks all big time Dom, claims he is single and available. Willing to meet up and see if there is chemistry, we show up at the designated bar on a sultry Monday night.  Get a table outside. And wait. And wait.  The guy "ghosts" us, and fails to even send an email explaining why he changed his mind.

Example 2:  Another would be Dom does meet us at the same location.  But .....pffft. Some lame story about how he and his wife remain married and co-habiting in the cliched "sexless marriage". While he represented he had a "free pass", he seemed very anxious to get out of there pronto, apparently worried about missing his curfew.  But the ultimate deal killer?  He told us he was a runner.  What we hadn't bargained on was his runner's bod.  Mistress does not go for scrawny dudes. And this guy was so scrawny it seemed like either one of us could bench press him.

Example 3: Guy with a seemingly appealing profile on OKCupid reaches out.  He says he's 60, a few years  older than her and a few years younger than me. In the "potential" ballpark.  Mistress plays along a bit. E mail addresses are exchanged. We trade photos. He gives her his real name. After a little googling Mistress determines that the guy is really north of 70.

"I already have someone older than me slave.  Why bother with someone even older!"

"Exactly, Mistress."

I am instructed, as her corresponding secretary , to convey the news, and I do, without calling attention to his massive age fib.  He responds with an "I get it, but am disappointed."  So we've heard the last of him, right?  Uhhh, no.

An hour or so later another email pops up in our "burner" in-box: "Are you sure?" he asks, and attaches this photo:

Yes, dude. Mistress is  even more sure.

So the hunt goes on.  If any of our readers have any thoughts on where to open a new "front", let us know.

In the meantime, enjoy those falling leaves.  I, for one,  will not be raking them!

Update from River City

Mistress and slave are back in River City, in a transition phase.

We are packing up our things (way too many things!) and getting ready to downsize to a local apartment building. We hope that a year from now we will be full timing it at our SW hideaway.  There's been some groaning from our daughters about this.... they don't like the idea that feeling there is no homestead where they can occasionally return and keep all the stuff they've had no use for in years.  But they can visit us in the West can't they?

These last two weeks, our daughter who's been "studying" in Europe has camped out with us. along with her European boyfriend.  He's a clever guy, and they seem to get along well. But their occupation of the adjoining bedroom has required Mistress and her slave to resort to stealthier sexual practices than we prefer.

That means stifling our sounds of passion, and keeping the buzzing sounds of Mistress's favorite power tool at bay.

And though we've been laying low on this blog site for some weeks now, I was surprised to discover that some of you are still reading us!  The internal tools here show that we still get several thousand page views each week, mostly from the US, but also from "the continent" and Asia as well.  Not sure what has kept people dropping by, but it makes me feel a little guilty that we've done nothing to fuel your sexual fantasies of late.

But after we make our move to our new local digs, we may be able to improve on that.  We recently had an overture from a local gentleman via the Collarspace website interested in a meet up.  We will have to see if Molly is ready to get back in the water and interview this potential cuckolder.

Getting Lucky.

Have  you missed us?

This old slave realized that it's been since April that we updated our vast array of followers about the ongoing adventures of Mick and Molly.

We are now ensconced in our SW hideaway for a long summer respite, enjoying the sunshine, cool temperatures and, of course, lots of sex.  Rest assured that we have not broken our ongoing record of daily sexual antics while out here all by our lonesome in the land of enchantment.

But, sort of sadly, there have been no kinky, cuckoldy activities to report. Maybe a few nibbles via collarspace, but nothing that we can mark on the calendar as even a prospect.  This got Mistress reflecting yesterday on whether the days of "side dishes" are really behind us.

"It's been a while slave.....do you think I'll ever have a side dish again?"

"Not sure Mistress.  You can't force these things. And you do have high standards....."

"I do, don't I?"


"And you have the right to high standards."

So while we haven't given up all together, we haven't been forcing the issue either.  Maybe when we get back to River City in August we can resume our search in a more active fashion.

But there is an amusing story to share about a tag line in some advertising for a local saloon.  It's something we've heard on the radio and at a local concert series sponsored by the saloon.

It goes this way:

"The Motherlode Saloon.  Where you get lucky when you go home alone....."

It's a catchy and thought provoking phrase.  And the general response among our friends has been ....WTF?  What does that mean?

One explanation...... the crowd at this saloon is so notoriously scruffy and outlaw that you don't want to take the risk of going home with one of its clientele.

Not particularly enticing, but certainly clever and contrarian.

But could it have a different and kinkier connotation, a theory I've not shared with any of our friends who might be put off by the connotation. It's a theory I can share here.

If a cuckold couple went to the Motherlode, and the "hot wife" hooked up with one of those scruffy outlaw types ..... then the cuck husband, going home alone, might actually feel "lucky".  Right?

I wonder how to get in touch with the Motherlode's ad agency to confirm my theory.

The Decline and Fall of America's Sex Life?

Mistress and slave are wrapping up a three week visit to our SW hideaway, where we've enjoyed both blazing sunshine and the final days of a phenomenal ski season. And, of course, plenty of sex.

Nothing too kinky. And no cuckolding action....but certainly doing well by most couple's standards.  While we skipped one day of skiing on this trip -- high winds threatened to shut down the lifts - we haven't missed a day of hot, steamy copulation in our sun lit bedroom.

But a recent article in the Washington Post suggested that we are becoming the out-est of  outliers when it comes to sexual frequency.

The decline and fall of our fellow country-mens' (and women's) sex lives is reflected in one chart that shows 23% of American adults have not had sex IN THE LAST YEAR?  Huh?  This choice of seemingly permanent celibacy flies in the face of reports that the Catholic Church has had trouble recruiting new priests who do not have a "thing" for little boys or girls.

About 38% report having sex once a month or less frequently, which put them at risk of simply forgetting how to do it. We are clearly in the top end of that remaining 39% who report having sex weekly or more.

Sadly, trend lines are going in the wrong direction, with frequency sloping consistently downward since 1989, the end of the Reagan era.

So what's driving this emerging sexual desert?  Is climate change impacting our sex drives?  Has President Trump's creepy take on the propriety of "pussy grabbing" turned off an entire generation on sex? Looking a little deeper at the stats, there seem to be two sources of the problem,
1) Some of us are getting older. Apparently  aging baby boomers (yours truly excepted) aren't "doing it" as much as they did in the 1960's and 70's.  Now I suppose that's not big surprise.
2) But the real anomaly is that youngsters in the 18-29 bracket are leading the new celibacy movement.






As shown by the chart above, a whopping 23% of 18-29 year olds are "just saying no" when it comes to sex. Has screen time and video games replaced a roll in the hay as the "go to" activity for young people these days? Or are they just more particular when it comes to finding a sexual partner, despite all the buzz about the instant coupling on apps like Tinder?

In any event. here at the UCTMW World HQ, we plan to simply move forward with our daily game plan. Some of us have to pitch into reverse those ugly trend lines!

Bored Wife Syndrome? In Search of a Cure.

Mistress is the one away this weekend, off to visit our daughter down in GA. We had some great “reunion” sex on Sunday evening, and more on Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday mornings. One accelerant that stoked our sexual fires was Mistress recounting her “while slave is away” sleepover with her old (and maybe current) lover Jay.

“It was hot, slave.  Like old times. I think he missed me……”

“I’m sure he did, Mistress.”

My guess is Jay will be coming around again soon. Though I think he likes it a lot more when he is the only man in the house. Sharing is not one of his strong suits.

Sadly, with Mistress away, slave doesn’t have much blogging inspiration to work with (other than Mistress’s description of the two business men who chatted her up at the ATL airport on Thursday morning).  

SO let's discuss a recent Atlantic article,  The Bored Sex, which validates our embrace of the cuckold lifestyle.  Hint: “The Bored Sex” is not male.  As the lead suggests “women, more than men, tend to be stultified by long term exclusivity…..” Here’s a taste:

Andrew Gotzis, a Manhattan psychiatrist with an extensive psychotherapy practice, has been treating a straight couple, whom we’ll call Jane and John, for several years. They have sex about three times a week, which might strike many as enviable, considering that John and Jane — who are in their 40s — have been together for nearly two decades. Based on numbers alone, one might wonder why they need couples counseling at all.

But only one of them is happy with the state of play. And it isn’t Jane.

“The problem is not that they are functionally unable to have sex, or to have orgasms. Or frequency. It’s that the sex they’re having isn’t what she wants,” Gotzis told me in a recent phone conversation. And like other straight women he sees, “she’s confused and demoralized by it. She thinks there’s something wrong with her.” John, meanwhile, feels criticized and inadequate. Mostly he can’t understand why, if his wife is having sex with him and having orgasms, she wants more. Or different.

The article quotes a variety of studies suggesting that women can more quickly get bored with monogamous sexual relationships than their male partners.

Although most people in sexual partnerships end up facing the conundrum biologists call “habituation to a stimulus” over time, a growing body of research suggests that heterosexual women, in the aggregate, are likely to face this problem earlier in the relationship than men. And that disparity tends not to even out over time. In general, men can manage wanting what they already have, while women struggle with it.

So how does a modern woman avoid that dreaded “habituation to a stimulus”? (i.e.,  hubbie’s same old, same old cock?)

Obviously, look for new stimuli!

Although this article mentioned strategies like toys, lingerie and even open marriages, the glaring hole was cuckoldry (with or without a FemDom chaser).

But it’s so obvious! If women are more likely to succumb to  sexual blahs than their male mates, then why not open things up for the female partner to acquire a “side dish” (or a variety of side dishes) as a relationship matures?

What’s good about a  “sidedish” is that it can be more readily replaced or recycled than a “main course”. Tired of fries?  How about some sweet potatoes?  Grilled eggplant? Or even deep fried Brussell sprouts? They all go well with a steak!

If the husband hopes to remain the “main course”, it behooves him to make sure there is a compelling variety of “side dishes" on the menu.

And if it just so happens that a bride’s enjoyment of a side dish (or three) is a source of stimulus for a sub-hubby, all the better!

While the slave's away.....

slave is spending a short weekend on the east coast, visiting my daughter and my cute (relatively) new grand daughter. It left Mistress with an open dance card for the weekend. One that she had no trouble filling.

"Jay's coming over Friday night."

"Oh?  It's been a while, Mistress..... what brought this on?"

"WE had lunch last week, and I mentioned you would be away.  He's been acting like he wanted to resume our "old times", So he suggested that the time was right...."

Older readers will remember Jay.  He's been around for maybe 5 years or so.  Things heat up, and then he backs away, seemingly confused and frustrated about this 'fucking some other guy's wife' thing.  Not everybody gets it, after all.  I think he'd like my wife all (or at least more) to himself.

As I was packing my bag on Thursday night, Mistress described their plans.

"He' meeting me here at 5 slave.  I told him to just let himself in, and that I'd be waiting for him in bed.  It's my nap time after all."

True that.  We usually share a late afternoon nap before dinner.  At least Mistress won't be alone for that.

"Then we're going out to dinner.  He'll be spending the night....."

"sounds like you won't be too horny while I'm gone, Mistress. "

"No slave,,,,, you may be without sex for the weekend, but I'll keep the home fires burning for you here."

It's been good to see my daughter, and spend some 'grumpy time' here.  But I made sure to stay in touch with Mistress to make sure all was going according to plan.  She gave me a call after she returned from dinner.  It turned out that dined at a nearby hipster bistro  where we had dinner on Thursday night.

"It was funny slave.... we had the same waiter.  He recognized me and I joked with him that last night I'd been there with another guy.....he thought it was funny."

No doubt.

I wonder who left the bigger tip.

"We're going to bed now, slave.  Sleep tight....."

I suspected I would be getting more sleep than she did.

In the morning I got another call around 8 am.

"Morning slave.....Jay's downstairs making himself some coffee, so I thought I would check in....."

"Aww.... that's usually my job."

(I usually made Jay's coffee when he slept over.)

"I know, but I think he'll figure it out...."

"So how did it go?"

"It was nice. Like old times.  We agreed it had been about 15 months since the last time.....he says he wants to do this more often again, whatever that means."

"I bet he feels more comfortable with your slave out of town....."

"You're probably right..... well I think he's coming back upstairs.  There's going to be more sex here before he goes home around 11.  Have a good morning slave!"

And I did.  But it wasn't easy to lose the thought of Mistress back in bed for a leisurely Saturday morning roll in the hay back in River City.

Spanking?

An anonymous reader left a comment yesterday and asked a question.  And since the "reply" function doesn't seem to be working as it should, I suppose this is the best way to respond. So consider this a follow up answer to a follow up question.

The comment came from a Dominant wife who said that she and her husband have been fantasizing about the possibility of her hypothetical Bull / Dom administering a bare bottom spanking to her hubby.  She wanted to know if we've talked about this in the Collins household.

Quite frankly, it's not something that's come up. I guess we still are focused on achieving Cuckold Level I.  Being spanked my Mistress's lover sounds like a post-grad course taken in Cuckold Level II. 

But it did open up some thoughts on what might be part of  the escalating humiliation of the cuckold husband in an evolving relationship involving a wife's dominant Bull lover.  

We've discussed or fantasized about:

• Mistress "pegging" her slave as her lover observes and eggs her on.
• Mistress using her riding crop on slave as her lover observes.
• Mistress being required to turn the key of slave's cock cage over to her lover.
• Mistress taking her lover's direction on when and how she can have sexual relations with her slave / husband.
• Mistress also being required to wear some sort of chastity device.

Obviously, these are variations on the cuckold theme that could be added on to the menu as a relationship escalates. 

As always, thanks for your comments and questions!

Q. and A. for Molly and mick (follow-up):

Hope you enjoyed our initial round of Q. and A.  I know Mistress was happy that her slave prepared some early morning reading for her. It provides something to accompany that initial wave of wake-up worship that (if done satisfactorily) leads to some wake-up gratification for her slave.  But our initial answers  generated some "follow up" questions. Unlike Sarah Hucka-Sans,  or her boss, we always indulge follow up questions!

Q. That part-time Dom want ad could have been written for a single woman.  There's no mention of a husband, let alone a husband. Are you looking for (a) a Dom lover for Molly, or (b) a Bull / Dom who will both control her and take an active role in the cuckold dimension of your relationship?

Interesting observation, dear reader. That want ad was written in the early stages of the blog, when Mistress and slave first began exploring what all this meant.  The contract we signed  came from a form found on the internet, with major revisions by us after some "negotiating". It allowed Mistress to take lovers, and we discovered that the concept gave us both a visceral thrill. But I don't think either of us had thought through the additional dimension of "cuckolding" at the time.

Before answering your question, Mistress and slave have spent some time (in and out of bed) discussing how best to respond.

At this point,  I think either (a) or (b) would appeal to Mistress. It's fair to say that Mistress would enjoy developing a relationship with either a Dominant lover who was just neutral on the Cuckold aspect of engaging with a married woman, or a Bull / Dom (as you describe it) who would exercise increasing control over her, and, as part of that control, exercise control over her slave / husband. But I think both of us would see (b) as the preferred situation.

Out contract has a clause that allows Mistress to essentially "assign" various rights to another person, male or female. So whether you look at Mistress's rights to dominate her slave as "assignable", or look at it from the point of view of a dominant lover becoming her Master, including  the right to her "property". either way, her dominant lover would have inherent powers over her husband as well.

That's getting a little too legalistic, isn't it?

Let's just say that both of us think that the concept of a Dominant lover who took more control over Mistress and her slave is compelling.  It's sort of the "holy grail" of the cuckold relationship, but easier to talk or fantasize about than actually accomplish.  As Mistress put it when we reflected on one encounter more than a year ago where slave was required to provide a service to one of her lover's that I had never performed before, "I did like the idea of him humiliating you in that way slave. It was very hot."

Q. Please tell me from both Molly and mick's perspective your ideal scenario's with a  Bull / Dom who "get's it" and is very comfortable with the cuckold dynamic?  What would the ideal scene entail?

Let's start by noting that furtive imaginings can come crashing down when confronted with the complications of a real life experience. Actually engaging in these types of scenarios requires a level of comfort and attraction for Molly that can take a while to achieve, and is hardly guaranteed.  That said, we've discussed this some, both in and out of the "throws of passion".  Here are some things that would be appealing to both of us.

• An evening at home might begin with slave in his cage, required to display it for her lover's amusement, and slave's humiliation. Maybe Mistress's lover would take possession of the key to his cage on these occasions, to remind all who is in charge.
• Slave might be required to prepare  and serve dinner while Molly and her lover relax in our living room, enjoying some wine. Kissing, fondling optional. Molly might even be required to give her lover as blow job as slave observes.
• Handcuffs, collars, or other emblems of submission might be worn by Molly or slave at various stages of the evening. States and manner of dress (or undress) could also be dictated.
• Slave might be required to "prime the pump" by performing fluffing duties for Mistress and / or her lover.
• Molly likes the idea of being "taken" while her slave is forced to watch, preferably bound and unable to interfere as she is ravaged and brought to orgasm.  
• Molly also likes the idea of being comfortably bound and teased to orgasm. Begging optional.
• Spankings for defiant or mischievous attitudes or behavior would be a welcome part of her lover's effort to "tame" her and win her submission.
• slave might be sent to an adjoining bedroom, forced to listen to his wife and her lover as they enjoy one another's company until morning. Of course, slave would be available to serve coffee on demand. or Breakfast in bed. 
• There might be occasions when Molly and her lover spend the night alone somewhere, and Molly later describes their encounters in explicit detail.
• As the relationship progressed,, and Mistress's lover took on  more control of the relationship, he might establish rules for Mistress and slave's sexual encounters, including frequency, forms of intercourse, and slave's chastity. 

Obviously, these are just some possible scenarios. Presumably any Bull / Dom lover would bring many of his own "perverse" ideas to the table that would earn even deeper submission from both Molly and her slave.

Hope this answers your questions.

Q. and A. for Molly and mick

Yes, we confess. It's been a little vanilla this winter in the Collins household, compared to years past. Mistress has a no active lover to distract her, which has left Mick without a whole lot to write about. We still have out almost every day "wake up" sex going, which puts us ahead of most married couples these days, regardless of age or demographic group.

And that's not counting the regular worship in the afternoon, and/or those extra digitally induced orgasms Mistress acquires while we lounge on our couch in the evening watching the latest on Netflix, or maybe episodes of "Victoria". Heck, it's clear we have more sex than Vic and Albert did, and they had all those kids! But I suspect our readers don't really want a "sex blog" that focuses on our everyday sexual routines, let alone TV reviews.

But when we get questions.....  that gets slave to fire-up the keyboard  and break this blogging draught  So here goes:

Q. Are you still switching for 2 hours every Sunday?  If so would either of you like to reduce or increase that frequency?

We still "celebrate" switch day, which was called for in our original contract, but rarely for as much as two hours.  Switch Day activities typically involve slave "torturing" Mistress with her Magic Wand vibrator, culminating in Mistress "begging" her slave for permission to cum. After this ritual, Slave is entitled to "have his way" with Mistress.  Always gratifying.  This usually happens after lounging in bed for a while with the morning papers (yes, we still get the Times and the local rag delivered to our door, a throw back to an earlier age.... supplemented by the Washington Post on the web.). After our sexual rituals, there's usually time for a bike ride, then a late breakfast, with Mistress cooking her highly stylized scrambled eggs. (Slave does the cooking the rest of the week).  So that's what "switch day" has evolved to.  It's a very satisfying ritual. and at least from Mick's POV, there's no need to extend it to other days of the week, or additional hours.

In the past, there might have been a little bondage during the big Magic Wand tease, or some cropping.  Older entries here would reveal that history.

Mistress says she has no need to add to our supplement our switch day activities. (Heck, she gets off pretty easy, doesn't she?)  But maybe our readers (or this questioner) would like to make some suggestions to "spice things up".  Consider the comments section our "suggestion box".

Q. In what way does mick express his subjugation to and admiration of  Molly? In what way would either of you like to see that change?

Here are a few ways in which mick tries to express his subjugation and admiration:

• Daily orgasm inducing worship.
• Asking for permission to cum when we have conventional sex.
• Admiring facebook posts referring to the "lovely Molly" on our vanilla facebook pages.
• Willingly submit to her occasional use of the riding crop to remind me "who's boss" and / or as consequences for a  faux pas. 
• Willingly submit to the occasional "pegging", another reminder of "who's boss."
• Wearing a cock cage when Mistress is meeting a lover, or has some special concern about who I might be encountering during the course of my day.

I suspect Mistress would like her slave to wear that cage more frequently, but relents when I whine about how uncomfortable it can be, particularly on a cold day, when my "junk" gets all tight and wants to hide from the low temperatures. 

Mistress adds that she should probably be wielding the crop and ass fuck me more!

Q. How would you describe your ideal Bull Dom relationship?

While Mistress has had several lovers since we embarked down the cuckold path some years ago, it's fair to say none of them have been of the "Bull Dom" type.  Most have been her age or younger, and there have been several "one offs" ( for various reasons such as bad chemistry or freak outs), and others that lasted months or even years. But none really got the concept of cuckolding in the sense of dominating the wife and / or the subtle or unsubtle humiliation of the cuck.  Most either didn't get why some married guy would let someone else have access to h is hot wife, or simply saw me as a peer who shared at least one thing in common. 

Our whole fascination with the cuckold concept arose from some interactions Mistress had with an old college beau who found her on facebook.  There was talk of spankings and bondage between them that got both of our motors running. But nothing came of it. When that guy "ghosted" after Molly said "put up or shut up", I wrote a "want add" for a "Part Time Dom" that would describe a fantasy relationship. Here's the link:

Want Ad for Part Time Dom

Of course, this description is fantastical.  The tricky part in any relationship (cuck or vanilla) is discovering mental and physical chemistry that can lead who knows where. Mistress is a busy girl who, in the real world,  would not have the time and energy for all that communication and engagement described in the "ad".  But the concept is hot, isn't it?  

At the least, a "Bull Dom" relationship would require someone who can establish that mental and physical chemistry with Mistress, and then use his own imagination, skills and powers of persuasion to convince her to surrender to her more submissive impulses. For slave's part, I would certainly enjoy witnessing it happen. But it could be quite a challenge, which may explain why that mythical "Bull Dom" we have sought has never materialized.  But a Hot wife and her submissive hubby can dream, can't they?

Hope this answers your questions, dear reader!