Mistress and slave made it safely
home from our 5 day work/leisure getaway late yesterday afternoon, with some
time left for a nice bike ride before dinner.
Our weekend went as (un)planned.
The weather was grey and cold on Saturday,
giving us an excuse to “shelter in place” in our rustic room after a long walk
to and from breakfast. Another “two-a-day” was part of our plan, and Mistress
punctuated our afternoon session with some vigorous cock riding.
Sunday dawned with some bright
sunshine. And though it was still unseasonably cold out we took a long walk on
the beach after some cozy wake-up sex.
All in all, our getaway was a
nice chance to spend some time together before heading into a few challenging
weeks of work and family duties.
When we arrived home we noticed
some hefty comments to Saturday morning’s blog. Our anonymous blog historian
presented an interesting
perspective on Mistress and slave’s style of communicating. And “Lapsed
Catholic” responded in detail to my question about whether her husband was
clued in on her own AM fueled couplings:
Thank you so much for the wonderful responses. No my husband
is not aware, I tried to spice up the sex life before joining AM but alas no
joy, he would not even entertain a vibrator. I have tried to swing our lives
around and am slowly dripping information to him re a cuckold lifestyle.
However this has to be done gently. I like the idea of denying him sex and
using it as a "reward" basis. I am going to introduce a chastity
device as a method of introducing the whole subject but am working the best way
to do this. He is very traditional! A true British gentleman so it is taking
some planning. I think he perceives me as this quiet gentle mother, fortunately
Ashley Madison has provided the sex so sorely needed. Fortunately he does know
I have a humour so therefore that is my "gateway" to starting the
ball rolling. Oh and a fettish for boots he has! I hope you had a wonderful
exploration of a weekend.
All of this might be fuel for our
own readers’ imaginations and ideas.
How do you introduce an unsuspecting husband to the “benefits” of a
chastity device? And when a wife
has an unfulfilled appetite for
some Femdom adventures, what do you do with a clue less husband?
It seems that the more typical
situation is where the husband has an inner submissive nagging to come out, and is searching
for a way to get his wife to tag along. Surely there may be some ideas out for
LC as she schemes to release her inner Domme. Any ideas, dear readers?
My own thought ties to LC’s
comments that her “British gentleman” husband has a bit of a boot fetish. Now there’s something to start
with. LC, maybe you should start
posing around the house in a get-up like the one on the left. If you get him started focused on the boots, he might start enjoying the accessories too!
A suggestion for LC... Maybe you could show him how sexy it can be to be in your service. I suggeat wearing some nice boots and lingerie and explaining in great detail exactly what you want him to do one step at a time. For example "now you are going to lay on the bed while I rub lotion over your entire body, but then when I am done you will start by kissing me here...
ReplyDeleteReally you can say order him to do anything, This gives you a chance to fill the domme role. It also gives him a chance to do as you wish and submit to you. If you make his first experiences in worshipping you good for him, then he is more likely to return to this behavior in his own. My theory being that the idea of a session that is based on you controlling him and dictating how he gets to have pleasure would be less intimidating than facing a cuckold fantasy or a cage but could certainly lead you there later.
I am loving the suggestion above. The problem we have is that we have gone from passive sex to me discovering that I want a good sexual experience. When the joint ability to pursue this was not forthcoming I signed up to AM. I have put on the boots (I hasten to add when the kids are out of the house) and intimated towards a sexual experience. I even started showing him some pictures on a website about Swinging etc. It is a long and slow process and I am afraid the quickie on a Sunday still prevails. The British Stiff Lip. Fortunately on the other side I have a wonderful AM lover who is happy to spend a day satisfying the need. I am going to document my efforts to you all. How I go from this meek yet strong sexually charged woman to one capable of locking up my husband one is finding challenging.
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