Yesterday we received a
thoughtful comment from a local follower, who lists himself as “anonymous”. But
I think we know who he is. Regardless of the source, it did provide some
insight that Slave had missed with regard to two recent foul ups here – once
when I forgot to worship, and then on Tuesday night when I attempted to worship
in a preemptory fashion, without Mistress invitation. Here is the comment from
yesterday:
Over the course of the last few weeks I have noticed that
Mick and Molly have been struggling to find the balance between relaxation time
and together time. For some people, this time is one and the same and therefore
have no conflict in balancing between them. However, I see it as two distinct
entities.
Relaxation time is the time for yourself to unwind from the daily grind and take a deep breath and let out the tension of the day. Molly has a many activities from which to choose from when needing to unwind. Reading and sunbathing tend to be her favorites, especially when done at the same time but one must not forget the biking and swimming. Mick has his own interests found in the political news cycle which is in overload due to the election year. Sometimes Mick can forget himself in this political passions as shown by his failure to worship before dinner the evening of the NY primary (see blog entry April 20, 2016) Make no mistake, everyone needs relaxation time and how we respect each other's need defines the relationship with your partner and makes together time that much more intense and special.
Here lies the conundrum in the contract. When is the right time for the slave to offer service to their Mistress or Master? Obviously, Mick does quite well when summoned and is very quick to meet the needs of Molly when called upon to do so. The challenge is finding the right timing to offer service to Molly without disrupting her relaxation time. Two consecutive Tuesday night primaries, with totally opposite actions by Mick, ended in a failure to serve Molly in a fashion to her liking.
When does a slave offer to serve? How does a slave know when to initiate the action? After all, it is the slaves duty to serve. Mick could use the help of the readers on this topic as he is running up a demerit tally that could result in several days of uncomfortable sitting.
Relaxation time is the time for yourself to unwind from the daily grind and take a deep breath and let out the tension of the day. Molly has a many activities from which to choose from when needing to unwind. Reading and sunbathing tend to be her favorites, especially when done at the same time but one must not forget the biking and swimming. Mick has his own interests found in the political news cycle which is in overload due to the election year. Sometimes Mick can forget himself in this political passions as shown by his failure to worship before dinner the evening of the NY primary (see blog entry April 20, 2016) Make no mistake, everyone needs relaxation time and how we respect each other's need defines the relationship with your partner and makes together time that much more intense and special.
Here lies the conundrum in the contract. When is the right time for the slave to offer service to their Mistress or Master? Obviously, Mick does quite well when summoned and is very quick to meet the needs of Molly when called upon to do so. The challenge is finding the right timing to offer service to Molly without disrupting her relaxation time. Two consecutive Tuesday night primaries, with totally opposite actions by Mick, ended in a failure to serve Molly in a fashion to her liking.
When does a slave offer to serve? How does a slave know when to initiate the action? After all, it is the slaves duty to serve. Mick could use the help of the readers on this topic as he is running up a demerit tally that could result in several days of uncomfortable sitting.
Of course, our commenter is
right. Both of those examples of “bad slave” behavior came on election days in
this contentious and entertaining primary season. Apparently Slave’s obsession
with the vagaries of the dual nomination contests has disrupted my sense of how
best to serve Mistress.
Clearly the lesson here is to
grovel more and worry about the election results less. I should certainly offer my services, but patiently wait for Mistress to indicate that she is ready to receive them.
Now that I am more conscious of
my weak spot, hopefully I will be better able to anticipate a proclivity to
fuck up on election or debate night, and self-correct.
If I don’t I have a feeling
Mistress will take the “correction” into her own hands.
There's mounting scientific evidence (i have the data if you need it) that the more time spent in chastity the more likely a submissive or slave is to "self correct."
ReplyDeleteIt's not that difficult a solution.
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