Here at the UCTMW, your poor slave has actually gone almost 48 hours without indulgence. Sunday evening we had guests for dinner, and the long bike ride that preceded it put us in a "resting mood" when our dinner guests headed home.
Monday morning, Mistress had one of those infernal 8 am meetings to primp for. And last night slave had to hang with my mother for a while in a local hospital. By the time I got home...... zzzzzzz.
But at least I can look forward to some quick release this morning.
On the other hand, over the weekend I saw this article on something called Kareeza: Sex Without Orgasms. The notion is that couples use this form of intercourse where they fuck without cumming to somehow strengthen their relationships and get into some spiritual zone. Here is a highlight:
So with all of the focus that most people put on orgasms, why are some
drawn to karezza? All of the individuals that ABC News interviewed about karezza were in long-term partnerships,
and the majority of the couples had experienced a lag in their sex lives or
were recovering from some form of addiction. Darryl Keil, a 56-year-old furniture maker
found karezza when he and his wife were having problems in the bedroom 14 years
ago. Neither he nor his wife Annabelle has had an orgasm for eight years, and
they say that their relationship has never been better. Annabelle now feels
like an equal partner during their daily sexual encounters. “It’s really alive,
great sex with great feeling,” Keil told ABC News. “The pleasure goes
up another level … You follow the sensation in your body, not the stimulation .
Well I can see the occasional turn on and intensity that comes with delaying a cum for a day or so. Mistress used to impose a mandatory "abstinence day" on her slave a few years back. And there were a few times (it's complicated) when I was allowed to fuck Mistress but she was not allowed to come.
But 8 years?
Even our fellow blogger Harry Haversacker wouldn't want that, would you Harry? (Although maybe the concept would be a turn on for Harry).
I have a tendency to think that it's bad for the plumbing to get all stopped up down there. Am I sounding too much like George C. Scott in Dr. Stangelove? And even that hard ass Suzanne hasn't made poor Tammy go without a quick release for more than about 30 days.
Our Western Correspondent can barely go 8 hours without dipping into his vat of high end lubricant at the office.
And as for Mistress, well she has a pretty quick trigger. I swear it took her no more than 10 seconds to cum Sunday morning once I switched on her favorite power tool. It is almost like a Pavlovian response once she sees that white bulbous head and hears the little buzz.
Let's hope Mistress never jumps on the Kareeza bandwagon.
Not sure what to say. How does a guy have sex without an orgasm? Omega has some pretty good staying power, but once he's done...it ends with an orgasm Can kinda understand it from the woman side, sometimes it's not easy...and from a biological perspective and evolutionary one, it's not really needed to complete the act. But for men...it's different.
ReplyDeleteHow does a man engage in sex (mouse is assuming this means coitus) and NOT have an orgasm? And still feel great about it for three years? Unless they've changed the meaning of sex to mean just cuddling and touching and stopping before things get too far...
Very interesting article mick!
Hugs,
mouse
I can say that it is doable. But very frustrating. I would not want to be on an 8 year diet of that, Mouse.
DeleteMick
8 years? Seems like WAY TOO LONG. I guess everybody has a different thing, a different kink, but still.
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WC here
ReplyDeleteEight years?????
WTF!!!!
That is freaking nuts!
I don't like to judge but
WTF?
And Mick
I once slept for 12 hours....
The likes his sleep sometimes
WC
Hey Mick!! I'm sorry I didn't catch this earlier. I'm a few days behind in my reading...
ReplyDeleteEight years? No sweat!!
I'm kidding, of course, but you're right, it is a damned hot concept. Me, I'm a once every four or five months kinda guy, but I get the idea of more or less permanent orgasm denial.
Here's my analogy: Orgasm is the end of a wild ride at the amusement park. At the end, we take a big breath and say "Whew! It's over" It's nice, the end, but the crazy ride get to there was the best part...
Long term denial is like going on the ride over and over again without ever having to say, "It's over."
You're a few years younger than I am, but still at the age where one's refractory period starts (but apparently not for you) to get really drawn out. For normal (again, that's not you) guys, orgasm denial is an easy way to avoid the physical and emotional drop that follows an orgasm and stay happily horny all the time.