The other night, Mistress and her slave dropped by at a local restaurant with a lovely U-shaped patio bar. We sat down at the bar, ordering drinks and snacks and enjoying the early summer weather at sunset. Mistress was looking her best, dark hair flowing, a colorful above the knee dress showing off her firm, tanned, bare legs, accented by some stylish black cowboy boots.
Then I noticed a solo guy across the bar. Probably late 40's, early 50's. Handsome in an aging hippie sort of way, with a well trimmed beard. He had a small plate and a beverage in front of him. After a while it became apparent that he was eyeing Mistress with a certain sort of interest. Mind fucking? or just curious? Hard to tell.
I quietly mentioned to Mistress that the guy across the bar was giving her the once over. She just giggled, said I was "imagining it." Sadly, nothing happened. My guess was that the guy found Mistress intriguing, but "spoken for", and was not so forward as to wander over to us and chat Mistress up.
He probably didn't recognize us for what we actually were: a hotwife and her submissive hubbie.
So what do our readers suggest as the best way to handle this sort of circumstance? Should I have offerred to walk home and leave Mistress alone at the bar to see what might happen? Should I have tried to draw the guy in for a three way conversation?
Mick:
ReplyDeleteYou should've withdrawn to observe without being noticed to give them an opportunity. Sometimes we are too much in the way.
Start walking, lol. It's a risky thing, some guys, a small percent, might be interested, but others would be worried about a plethora of things. Jealousy, being set up, issues or problems, wondering if they were being "trapped" into something, and having a guy approach and present an offer would probably make them more nervous.
ReplyDeleteGood advice Vanessa and Gary. I should have come up with an excuse to leave her alone at the bar for a while and see if the guy took advantage.
DeleteI would you can only tell by engaging him in conversation. Then making an excuse to excuse yourself and let the two of them talk in private.
ReplyDeleteMick - why not just go over and invite the guy to join you? Why make it so complicated? I get Vanessa's point but sometimes you have to take a chance.
ReplyDeleteHow about setting up a meet like that where Mistress is at bar and a guy walks in and hits on her while cuck watches?
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