Lonely Bed Give Time to Answer Reader Question.

Mistress was up early this morning and off on an overnight business trip. Sadly, I'm here alone in our bed, and she doesn't even have a handy side-dish to keep hers warm.  I spent the evening visiting my cute grandkids, getting my ass kicked in a game of stratego with a 10 yr. old, and bickering on facebook over the endless Presidential election campaign.

I suspect I will hear from Mistress before I drift off to sleep.  But in the meantime, slave is following the "no touch" rule. There was not time for sex this morning, so it may  be a whole 60 hours or more between cums for Mistress and slave.  Not a good way to kick off June!

So with nothing to report on, why not rely on an old blogging contrivance: answering reader questions.  Yesterday Lapsed Catholic Wife (LCW) asked why Mistress recounting her Saturday night nookie with Jay made me horny:

"is it the thought of another satisfying the Mistress?  Or is it the sex act itself?  Does Jealousy every rear it's head?"

LCW, I've scratched my head about that more than a few times. The whole cuckold turn on is a real mystery, and, quite frankly it never even occurred to me as a hot concept until I was writing up our contract, found a few forms on line, and came upon the notion that the Mistress could take other lovers as a matter of contractual right. Here's the language from our contract (which is posted to the right this text):

4. Mistress has the right to engage in other relationships with men or women, of whatever nature, without obtaining additional consent from the Slave. Such relationships may include “vanilla” relationships, her taking or training of additional slaves, or her submission to other men or women.

4. Mistress has the right to disclose to any person her status as the Owner of Slave and the terms of this contract.

I did a whole blog on this subject back in 2010 that keyed off a Psychology article on the subject: So What's This Cuckold Stuff Really About.

But in reviewing that ancient post, our experience these last few years requires an update:

1) The "sperm competition" referenced in that article is part of the thrill.  It makes you "up your game" when Mistress describes a hot encounter with a side dish, or even if she sees some guy who turns her on, but has to admire him from afar.

2) The masochistic / humiliation thing also is a potential turn on for me. Oddly, all of the men Mistress has been involved with since we signed our contract have been almost too respectful to old Mick. Maybe it's my stature (I am nearly 6 ft. and hardly skinny); maybe it's my age and seeming gravitas.  Whatever, all the guys I have met seem to go out of their way to be courteous and respectful even as they have their way with my wife. I confess It would be pretty hot to have one who taunted me with his privilege. 

3) Finally, at least so far jealousy has not entered the picture. Maybe part of it is my age, or experience, or my trust in Molly, but I've never felt threatened and (therefore) jealous of any of Mistress's lovers. Oddly, if one came a long who made me feel threatened and jealous, that would probably make things all the hotter.

Yeah, call me crazy.

Hope that answers your question LCW.