Date Night Means Cage Time.

Mistress and slave will be entertaining a new "prospect" tonight. We met S via OKCupid and then got together with him for drinks last Tuesday night. Anything for an excuse to avoid the State of the Union address, right?  He's a single dad who lives about 30 minutes from the UCTMW World HQ.  About 6 foot, with a runner's slender physique.  Age wise, he's about mid-way between Mistress and slave.

S is not exactly the "Bull" type.  More heartland polite. But we certainly had plenty to talk about during our two hours or so over drinks on Tuesday. The jury is still out on whether there is a sufficient "spark" that will generate some heat between S and Mistress.  But she determined it was worth getting to know him a little better.  I'll be cooking. They can be chatting over some wine.  We will keep our readers updated on how things develop.

As for me, Mistress laid out some clear directions.

"I think you should be in your cage tonight, slave..... it's been too long."

I guess I am in no position to disagree,

Cuckold In Chief?

Last week the Trump regime celebrated it's first anniversary. It also was struggling to control the growing scandal about the pay-off of a porn star who was tattling about her affair with the President-to-be while his wife Melania was caring for their new born. Reports were that Mrs. Trump was "blindsided" and pissed. She cancelled plans to join her husband on that junket to Davos, heading to Florida instead.

And when the time came to post on her Instagram account in the anniversary of the inauguration, she didn't show us a photo of her dancing with her super-sized husband. No.  Instead there was this photo of her with a hunky Marine more her own age. Though he had his hat on, I'm guessing he didn't have a combover or dye his hair orange.

We know that the President and his Slovenian wife maintain separate bedrooms. And she bided her time before actually moving into the White House, Was that because of the POTUS's habit of wolfing down burgers in bed, while gorging on FOX News sycophants? Or is it because she has a collection of real, vigorous men to keep her bed warm?

Let's hope that smile on her face reflects what is really going on behind closed doors in the White House residence.

When CNN Writes About Cuckolding, Does That Make it "Fake News"?

For those of us bitten by the "cuckolding bug", there is a certain validation when the mainstream media (MSM?) starts writing about it, and even endorsing it as a main stream kink (MSK?). But when CNN - POTUS's 'fake news" boogychannel - is doing that sort of reporting, what are we to think?

Last week CNN posted a story titled Cuckolding Can Be Positive for Some Couples, Study Finds. No doubt some heads exploded, maybe even in the White House.

The article was triggered by a study that focused on cuckolding again gay men, but includes what amounts to a green light for those of us enticed by the fantasy of our spouse in the arms of another.  In fact, the article, suggests that "acting on adulterous fantasies may strengthen a relationship, as counterintuitive as it may sound."

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·        Here are some highlights from this "breaking news" reporting from the President's least favorite "news" outlet:

(CNN)In our current political climate, the term "cuck" -- short for "cuckservative" -- has become an insult of the so-called alt-right, aimed at men they view as spineless and emasculated. The slur has its roots in the concept of cuckolding, or having an adulterous partner. 

But, according to a recent study by David Ley, Justin Lehmiller and the writer Dan Savage, acting on cuckolding fantasies can be a largely positive experience for many couples, and hardly a sign of weakness.

References to cuckolding appear in literature as early as the 13th century, usually in the form of male characters who fear that their child has been sired by another man during an act of infidelity. Today, however, cuckolding has become fetishized into a powerful sexual fantasy for some men, who get aroused by the idea of their romantic partner engaging in sexual activity with someone else. Women also share this fantasy, but less so than men. 

"This fantasy has been around as long as marriage and sexuality," said Ley, whose book "Insatiable Wives" addresses cuckolding in heterosexual couples. "But we're hearing more and more about it these days, and more people are rejecting the social stigma against this fantasy."

Indeed, the numbers suggest that cuckolding, or at least thinking about it, is more common than you might imagine. For his forthcoming book, "Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help Improve Your Sex Life," Lehmiller surveyed thousands of Americans and found that 58% of men and about a third of women had fantasized about cuckolding. 

Of course this raises a question: if women are also fantasizing about cuckolding, is the fantasy about their male partner having sex with another woman; or about them having sex with another guy, with the knowledge of their husband?  Now that's an issue for CNN to follow up on.

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The article also focuses on the root causes of the cuckold fantasy:

And the emotions surrounding seeing your partner with someone else can add to the turn-on, explained Savage. "It's not cuckolding if there isn't an element of humiliation, degradation or denial," he said. "Our erotic imaginations have the ability to turn shame lemons into delicious kink lemonade."

Of course, the article is not a total green light for married ladies to go in search of a lover to fulfill their husband's (or their own) cuckolding fantasies. It can be positive, but not for the faint of heart - or insecure:

As a sex therapist, one of the more intriguing findings from this study involves the impact of cuckolding on relationships. 

"Overall, our research found that for the most part, cuckolding tends to be a positive fantasy and behavior," said Ley. "It doesn't appear to be evidence of disturbance, of an unhealthy relationship, or of disregard for one's partner." But there's an important caveat, added Lehmiller. "We found several personality factors that predict more positive experiences acting on cuckolding fantasies. For those who have a lot of relationship anxiety or abandonment issues, who lack intimacy and communication, and who aren't careful, detail-oriented planners, acting on a consensual non-monogamy fantasy could very well be a negative experience," he said. "In other words, not everyone who has a cuckolding fantasy should think about acting on it."

One has to wonder whether the cuckolding fantasy has taken root in the "residence" at 1600 Pennsylvania Ave. Could it be that Melania actually gets off on those stories about her husband paying off porn stars?  Or, on the other hand, did Melania pass on that trip to Davos so she had some privacy to cavort with her tennis instructor at Mara Lago? 

Maybe CNN can turn their investigative reporters loose on that story line.

More From Our Western Correspondent's Mexican Junket.....

Here in the heartland, Mistress and slave are still digging out from a backlog of undone work tasks. Although we haven't completely given up on the "seeking cuckolder" front.  We have arranged to me with a potential suitor on Tuesday evening. Fortunately, our Western Correspondent has shared a little more information about his trip with long suffering wife B to that swingers destination south of the border.....

Well boss I will write some more about that trip

One afternoon B and I were in the roof top pool for sunset and I was leaning against the pool bar and B was standing next to me 

The bartender started spreading a towel on the bar and I realized something was going to happen so I steered B away from the bar

I didn't want to get roped into any peer pressure induced hyjinks not of my choosing!

The pool was packed shoulder to shoulder, water about waist high

Think of a packed after work cocktail party, but in a pool and every body is naked......

A beautiful lady climbed up on the towel and got on her back

The bartender poured chocolate syrup on her nipples and crotch and even put a cherry right on her clit

The two men accompanying her proceeded to lick it off

Was your dream dessert Mick!

Anyway, B saw what was happening and said "thanks for moving me, no chocolate for me" 

This British very distinguished British guy in his 60's, with a huge dick BTW, deadpanned in a heavy British accent

"Quite sensible as chocolate has no vitamins or fiber atol" ................perfectly timed

Everybody totally cracked up especially my wife, he could have charmed the pants right off B

Except she wasn't wearing any......

There was a charming German couple Franz and Sylvia and the wife was a spitting image of B

We saw them at the bar one night and walked up to them

We all looked at each other and then just started laughing

"Twins"   Franz says laughing 

We had a very enjoyable 30 minute or so conversation wherein we all decided it could be pretty kinky to see the twins side by side naked bottoms in the air.

We were eating in different places so we agreed to look for each other later

When it was time to go to dinner Franz gave Sylvia a mighty slap on the bottom off they went. 

Later that night there was no sign of Franz but Sylvia was dancing with a beautiful naked woman on a leash wearing a beautiful feathers mask on her face and high heels.

Sylvia kept giving her might slaps on her bare bottom 

The whole thing was kinky as shit! 

Somedays they would have a "workshop" at 4 in the afternoon.

I talked to the couple that ran the Tuesday and Thursday workshop, the were an incredibly sexy American couple who lived in Cancun.

The Tuesday workshop consisted of teaching the man to worship his partner’s genitals for an hour

The Thursday workshop consisted of teaching the woman to worship her mans genitals for an hour.

I met the couple on Thursday........I told B about the great workshop 

B said I should have asked on Tuesday .........Oh well...........

We were standing about knee deep in the surf talking to 5 other couples

Two of the couples were describing a workshop they attended last year

It was a squirting workshop, they had an Gyn chair set up in the middle of the floor with 12 or so couples attending

The workshop was for women who have never squirted........but want to

The guy running the show was apparently a master masturbator who claimed he could make any woman squirt

The ladies were telling the story and said they found it quite exciting to be in the gyn chair in front of all these folks

But they raved about the master masturbator , he even changed gloves for each patient:)

Apparently he would oil their genitals and then insert two finger into their vaginas and rub the roof of their vaginas right near the entrance 

And off they would got squirting a far as 12 feet!

The women said the orgasms were spectacular.....

Thanks for the reporting Mike.  But Mistress and I would love to hear Beth's version of all this. Did she get any "extracurricular" action from any of these itinerant cocks?