Here at the UCTMW World
HQ, we had an unexpected bonus Sunday night: our daughter who had nursed her
boyfriend (Mr. Boxers) back to health on Saturday evening. (I’m not going to
speculate what was involved), drove him back to campus on Sunday afternoon. Then she texted her mother that she
would be spending the night! WooHoo! That left our upstairs open for some lusty
late afternoon fucking to complement our morning sex. Two consecutive two a
days is always worth celebrating for some dude almost eligible for Medicare.
Yesterday was a little
more Spartan. Mistress had one of those early wake-up calls, meaning no chance
for AM sex. By yesterday evening, slave was happy to just honor her with some
pre-bedtime worship, enjoyed as she read Marc Divigny’s latest entry at “The
Cuckolder”. This is becoming a
tradition, with Marc’s cuckold adventures
priming Mistress’s lush clean shaven folds, and making Slave’s job all
the easier.
An occasion when Mistress
gets a cum, while Slave gets to wait until the next morning fits in well with
today’s blog, triggered by a study at the 538 Blog titled The Gender Orgasm Gap. It turns out the Cuckold /
Femdom lifestyle flips the standard male / female gender gap on its head:
In 2009, the National
Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior (NSSHB) asked 1,931 U.S. adults
ages 18 to 59 about their most recent sexual experience. The topline findings
show that men are more likely to orgasm than women — 91 percent of men said they
climaxed during their last sexual encounter, compared with 64 percent of women.
But there seems to be a
perception gap, too — at least among men. Eighty-five percent of men said their
partners in that recent sexual encounter had reached climax, far higher than
the percentage of women who said they orgasmed. That can’t simply be explained
away by saying that the men were referring to different sexual partners. Most
of these sexual encounters were heterosexual — 92 percent of men and 98 percent
of women said their last sexual encounter was with someone of the opposite sex.
So it seems like some of those men were wrong when they said their partners had
orgasmed — either their egos are causing them to overestimate, or some of those
women are faking it.
The chart tells the tale
of the sad plight of women who have not taken charge in their relationship:
Unlike the sad,
disadvantaged “typical” women represented by this graph, Molly would seem to
enjoy an orgasm with every “sexual encounter” we have the opportunity to enjoy.
(Unless I’m one of those pathetic guys who imagines that orgasms are happening
when they apparently are not). In fact what's the point of a "sexual encounter" that does not end in pleasing your female partner? Unlike the selfish "typical" guys represented in this data, Molly certainly outscores her hardly sexually deprived slave, who has no complaints on the frequency of cum front.
That also seems to be the
case in the home of “The Married Sissy”, where Terri keeps a daily orgasm log
that documents the fact that his dominant wife “scores” much more
frequently than he does. (Though I might add that Diane could probably use some
more orgasms to keep up with Molly).
I note that women seem to
cum more typically in response to oral attention. That may be why we typically
start with a little oral worship in our “encounters”. Unless we’re watching TV
and slave uses the “partner masturbation” technique when Mistress brazenly
spreads her legs next to me on the couch.
One oddity though: the
chart suggests that women never have an orgasm when they “give” anal sex. In my
experience, Mistress always seems to cum rather intensely when she uses her
strap-on. Don’t the stat keepers at the 538 Blog count pegging when it comes to
tracking “sexual encounters”?
