Slave's Annual Self Evaluation

Tomorrow is the one day of the year I have to cancel or request an amendment to our contract. I have already let Mistress know that I have no problems with our “deal”.

She has suggested only one change” that I explicitly state I will not complain at some future date about her dalliance with our Western Correspondent. No problem there. If anything I was there twisted little “matchmaker”. I plan to make that amendment for her approval.

But I thought it might be a good idea to review the contract on this anniversary and do a little self-evaluation. See how I am measuring up, and invite Mistress to do the same.

So here goes – the language from our contract with my self evaluation commentary and ranking on a scale of 1 (bad slave) to 5 (excellent Slave):


I. ROLE AND OBLIGATIONS OF THE SLAVE

1. Slave’s body and particularly his penis and ass belong solely to Mistress. Slave accepts the claim of ownership over his physical body by Mistress. His body is the property of the Mistress and he agrees to be commanded, trained and punished as a slave and is duty bound to fulfill the pleasures and desires of his Mistress to the best of his abilities.

Self rating 4- No problems here. I have allowed Mistress full and exclusive use. When she says to strip, kneel, accept a spanking, I am always ready to hop to for her. Nor have there been any others treading on her rights.

2. Slave will submit himself to his Mistress fully and completely. He accepts that his principle concern, goal and purpose in life as a slave will be to enhance the pleasure, happiness and quality of life of his Mistress. To perform any personal services, errands, and sexual services and to accept any training, punishment, humiliation, degradation or other use demanded of him by his Mistress, in private or in public.

Self rating 3- I probably could improve in this category. No problems with the training, punishment, etc. But I should be focused more on making Mistress’s life easier by volunteering to perform annoying and burdensome tasks, rather than waiting for direction.

3. The slave gives the Mistress the sole and exclusive use of his body. This may include, but is not limited to, the length of his hair, shaving of his body hair, tattooing, body weight and manner of dress and undress.

Self rating 2- Well, I did argue on favor of cutting off the beard she had asked me to grow. Definitely need improvement in this area.

4.The slave will not allow or permit the use of his body by any other person, to include physical contact or sexual relations.

SO far N/A. Though I am fully prepared to submit to a firm spanking by M’s wife, B, if that will create a sufficient diversion to allow Mistress and M to fulfill their darkest fantasies with one another.

5. The slave must make himself available to his Owner at all times and to this end must ensure that he carries a telephone with him all day, every day, that the telephone is available to receive calls and the telephone number is known to his Owner. The slave shall report any calls to the Mistress that she would find disturbing. If the slave receives such calls, he shall quickly tell the caller that he is NOT to be contacted under any circumstances. This is enforced for text messages, emails or any contact what so ever.


Self Rating: 3- There have been a few days when I forgot my cell phone. Or when I was on another call and could not break away to answer Mistress’s call. On the other hand, I have not had any of those “bad” calls to report to her

5. If for any reason the slave learns that he may be unable to respond immediately to an order or call from his Owner (such as a business meeting or a trip which takes the slave out of reasonable traveling distance from his Owner), he must immediately explain his lack of contact to his Owner by email or text message. If he fails to do so, he will be considered to be in breach of this contract (see clause IV/5). Note that this punishment will likely not be of the slave’s liking or meet any desires.

Self Rating: 4- I think I have covered my ass in this way, usually by a text message or email explaining I am on a conference call, etc.

6. The Owner may at any time give, rent, or lend the slave to another Mistress without consulting or giving notice to the slave. The rights and privileges afforded by this contract will be automatically transferred to the new Owner.

So far, N/A.

7. In order to ensure the slave’s compliance and obedience to his Owner, he will at the direction and sole option of mistress be locked in a chastity device, which he will not be able to remove without permission of the Mistress. The slave should never expect the device to be removed other than by Mistress or with her permission. On such occasions that it is removed (for example, for the device to be cleaned), Mistress has the right to restrain Slave and not release him from such restraints until the chastity device is once again locked in place.

Self Rating: 4 – I happily and without too much whining apply my cock cage and have Mistress lock it ,when requested. We have not used it as much in recent months because we drive to work together.

8. The Owner shall have complete and absolute control over the slave and all of her commands shall be swiftly and diligently obeyed. The slave will accept any and all consequences, as outlined under REMEDIAL ACTIONS, for any failures to do so.

Self Rating 3- I may not do the swift thing as swiftly as I should sometimes. But diligence is a strong point. So far, the consequences have been easy to accept.

9. Even the slave’s thoughts belong to Mistress. He shall fully and completely answer the question “what are you thinking, slave?” whenever asked, without resentment or sarcasm. He will fully disclose to Mistress any thoughts he may have on ways in which she can enhance his submission to her, which she may either accept or reject at her discretion.

Self Rating 2- I need work on this one. It’s a guy thing.

10.. The slave may not ask for this contract to be terminated. Only Mistress may terminate it.

Self rating – 4. No problem here.


11. This contract is made in good faith by both parties and shall be considered binding.

12. The slave gives the Mistress power to interpret this document as she sees fit. The slave gives the Mistress the authority to enforce the agreements made in this contract, using, if she feels necessary, physical punishment (see below).

Self rating -1 I probably have argued a point or two, particularly with respect to my switch privileges. Bad slave.

II. ROLE, RIGHTS AND OBLIGATIONS OF THE MISTRESS

1. The Mistress has no obligations or duties towards the slave whatsoever, except as noted in this Agreement.

2. The Mistress will have ownership of slave's body, to use and or abuse as she sees fit for whatever purposes she desires.

4. Mistress has the right to engage in other relationships with men or women, of whatever nature, without obtaining additional consent from the Slave. Such relationships may include “vanilla” relationships, her taking or training of additional slaves, or her submission to other men or women.

Self rating 4: In this area, I have not only been accepting, but facilitating. Hopefully Mistress is pleased.

4. Mistress has the right to disclose to any person her status as the Owner of Slave and the terms of this contract.

Can’t really rate myself here, but its amusing to note that Mistress has disclosed my status to M, her “starter Dom” Sir M, and two other men she has engaged with to a lesser degree since we signed the contract.

5. On Sunday mornings for at least 2 hours, and at other times of the week, upon agreement of the parties, Mistress will submit completely and totally to slave, as if she was the Slave and he was the Master/Owner of her under the terms of this agreement.

Self rating – 4- Hopefully I have acquitted myself well while using, but not abusing this privilege. Mistress has lived up to her end of the bargain when it comes to Switch Days.

III. RULES APPLICABLE TO SLAVE

1. It is slave’s obligation to determine when his chastity device should be worn, and to offer to put it on whenever he leaves the home. Failure to ask mistress if he should wear his chastity device will be grounds for punishment.

Self Rating 1- I have fallen down on the job. The ritual of asking would be good for me, even if Mistress gives me a pass.
3. When slave returns home from work or any other absence for more than one hour, he will kneel and offer to worship Mistress’ and kiss her feet.
Self Rating 2- Again, I have been sloppy. This is hit or miss for me, and I need to remind myself of this obligation, even if Mistress may seem otherwise preoccupied because she wants to ride a bike, etc.

4. Slave shall not sleep in underwear, and may be instructed to strip completely or partially at any time Mistress directs.
Self Rating 4- I am pretty well trained to sleep only in underwear, and strip on command without question. Big deal you might say, and you would be right. Who could complain about being asked to strip by such a fetching Mistress.

5. No more than once per week, typically on Sunday morning unless otherwise agreed, slave may restrain and use a riding crop on mistress to give her pleasure, but must stop if directed to stop.
See above. Never have been asked to stop, though I think I self modulate if it seems Mistress is uncomfortable.
6. Slave will submit without resistance to any restraints or physical punishment that mistress chooses to impose.
Self rating – 4. No problem here. I guess I am a bit of a punishment hog.
7. Slave will never masturbate or otherwise stimulate his penis without Mistress’s consent.
Self rating 5- I am well trained not to touch unless directed. Of course we have yet to have an extended period when Mistress or I was out of town. Guess we will cross that brige when we come to it.

8. When mistress is out of town, Slave will wear his chastity device as directed, and not remove it unless he receives specific permission from Mistress.

Self rating 5- when this has happened, I have towed the chastity device line. 

9. Slave will beg for permission to come, and not come unless he receives Mistress’s permission.

Self Evaluation 3- there have been a few occassions when Slave lost control. I can blame Mistress’s sexual magnetism for that to get off the hook, but improvement is needed.
10. Mistress may use a strap on or any other device to penetrate Slave to remind him of her control and dominance.
Self Evaluation 4- Yum. Though once I said “enough, Mistress.” Bad Slave.
11. Slave will insert any device designated by Mistress as she directs.
Self Evaluation 5 – well trained here. Though I guess I don’t know how I would handle a device other than our trusty white aneros.
12. When having sex, Slave may penetrate mistress only after begging for and receiving her permission, and will withdraw immediately if directed.

Self Evaluation 4- This has happened on occasion, though not so much lately. I reluctantly, groaningly and moaningly obey.
13. Slave will report any overtures or solicitations from any female to Mistress, and reject such solicitation with the statement that he is happily married and devoted to his wife/ Mistress.
N/A so far.
14. If Mistress leaves the City for any reason, Slave will be available by phone, text or email at all times unless involved in a business meeting or court engagement
Self Evaluation 4- I don’t believe Mistress has lost track of me under these circumstances when she is out of town, other than an occasional time when I am in a meeting or on another call.
15. Slave will explain in advance any work or social engagements, and get permission from Mistress before attending any engagements.
Self Evaluation 3- I think I have iomproved in this area, though there may be times when I don’t go over my schedule in sufficient detail with Mistress.
16. Mistress may deny the Slave the right to attend any social engagement, or spend time with any persons at her sole discretion.
Self Evaluation 4- No resistance on my part to these restrictions.
17. When in private, Slave will address Mistress as “Mistress”. Mistress may refer to Slave as “Slave” at any time.
Self Evaluation 2- Sometimes a “baby” r “darling” slips out. Need to work on this to keep me in the proper mind set.
18. At her discretion, Mistress may require Slave to wear a collar indicating his status as Slave.
N/A so far.
19. Mistress has the right to declare periods of abstinence at her discretion.
Self Rating- 4- When Mistress calls for Abstinence I have not grumbled, though I can recall waking her up one night when, technically, absitenence day was over, and taking what I was desperate for,
20. Slave will pleasure Mistress whenever requested, to the best of his ability.
Self Rating 4- Always room for improvement though.
21. Mistress may require Slave to masturbate whenever she demands.
Self Rating 4- Never reluctant to do this for Mistress. Tjough there was a time when she said “keep it hard for me, Slave”, as she took a call, and I probably did not do a good enough job..
22. These rules applicable to slave may be amended and supplemented from time to time as Mistress directs, at her sole discretion.

III. REMEDIAL ACTIONS

The slave agrees to submit himself completely to his Mistress, to accept her domination of him and to unquestioningly and without exception obey any and all demands that she may make of him. The Owner has the following means of redress should she deem the slave to be in non-compliance with an order:

1. Without limitation, the Owner may inflict upon the slave any punishment with whatever implements she wishes to use. The slave understands and consents that such punishments may include severe pain and suffering, including pain and suffering of a sexual nature. The duration of such punishments and the level of pain inflicted will be decided solely by the Mistress.

2. The slave has no right to protest his Mistress’s decision in any matter, least of all his own punishment. He shall hold his Mistress blameless for any physical or emotional damage she may inflict upon him and in signing this contract the slave consents, without exception, to any and all punishments, physical or otherwise, that the Owner chooses to inflict upon him.

Self Evaluation 3- Mistress really has not resorted to many remedial actions. If anything, she should probably do more of that to keep me on my toes and adjust my attitude when I get a little too self-absorbed and demanding. While I believe I comply with specific requests, I am probably not deferential or considerate enough of Mistress’s needs and emotions. So I definitely need improvement with respect the the first paragraph in this section.


I loiok forward to hearing Mistress perrformance review of her Slave.

HNT / The Nipple Clamp Conundrum.

One of our more compelling and intriguing challenges here in Molly and Mick land is understanding and managing the dynamics of our unusual but very sexy three way relationship with our Western Correspondent.

M appears to be a man who knows what he wants. But,  unlike Mick,  he can get a little proprietary if someone else wants it too.

If course, he wants Molly. And, and as far as she and I are concerned, he is welcome to take his fill of her.

The only parameters I have set in my conversations with Molly on the subject (as if I have any right to set parameters) came in the following little dialog a few weeks back:

“You really would not get your nose out of joint if I visited him, Slave?”

“Well, Mistress. Hypothetically – if you went to visit for a week or so, then called to say you weren’t coming back any time soon…..I know that would upset me. I would miss you. Worry that I had lost you.

Plus, I might get tired of being in the cage.”

She laughed at that last point.

But I think she got the message. I don’t want to lose Mistress. I need her. But sharing is fine, if it makes her happy to be shared.

“Other than that …. A long weekend in his clutches. A week at his mountain cabin, fucking under the stars.  That is something that would not offend me Mistress.  It is your right. Go for it.”

And Mistress does seem to be happy - very happy - having M as another presence in her life these days. Their relationship seems to be broader and deeper than the erotic highlights that I describe on these pages. All good.

But here is a confession:  I can be a bit of a troublemaker. I do  take some devious pleasure in  sending out little signals through this blog (or otherwise) that might stir up some controversy, and throw off some sexual sparks between them. Selfishly, I suppose, I know that those sparks always seem to get thrown in my humble direction too.

Example: our switch day this past Sunday. Scroll down a bit and you will see Mistress stretched out, bound, forced to endure Hitachi induced orgasms, yadda, yadda, yadda.

With Mistress permission (as always) I sent M a “preview” photo, the one above, showing her firm and lush breasts all tricked out with those diabolical nipple clamps I “forced” on her once she was suitably restrained.

And I made sure to mention Mistress’s protests about those tight nipple clamps that I fastened on her when she had no ability to squirm away from me.

Is it possible that someone who so dearly wants to make Mistress his little  cock- sucking Slave might get s little antsy at such a scenario?

Mistress reported later that M had counseled her on the subject:

“M says that I should just use my authority as your Mistress to order you not to use those nipple clamps on me anymore, Slave.”

“Hmmmm…. I thought I was simply exercising my contractual switch privileges, Mistress.” (he drops a footnote for you[1]), I said innocently.

“I suppose that’s true, Slave.”

“Of course, I would never want to hurt you, Mistress….. are they unbearable?”

“Well, not exactly unbearable , Slave.”

“Didn’t they seem to add to the quality of that great big orgasm you had when I crammed the power tool between your legs, Mistress?”

“Well … could be.”

She had that cute faraway look in her eye, as she recalled her Sunday morning plight.

“But I suppose M is right….He must have read our contract. You do have the right to alter  the rules at your arbitrary discretion…. At any time. [2]

That’s your right, Mistress. Should I draw up an amended contract so you can ban any nipple clamps on future switch days?”

She thought a moment.

“I guess not, Slave….it is your switch day, after all.”

So, I ask you, dear readers, was Slave stirring the pot?

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[1] 5. On Sunday mornings for at least 2 hours, and at other times of the week, upon agreement of the parties, Mistress will submit completely and totally to slave, as if she was the Slave and he was the Master/Owner of her under the terms of this agreement.

[2] 5. Amendments to this agreement, shall be made in writing, signed by Mistress and Slave. If Mistress elects to impose additional rules on slave as allowed by Section III, they will be added to this agreement and both parties will sign.

A Slave Can't Take What is Promised to Another

Last night, after her wanton display on the ride home, Mistress was committed to a bike ride and swimming laps at our community swim club.

My offer to worship was deferred.

“I know all that activity probably made you a little horny, Slave”, she said in her teasing voice.

“True, Mistress…..how did you guess?”

She laughed a bit at my need. She likes me needy for her.

“But I’m going to make you wait a while…is that OK?”

As if my opinion counted.

So after biking, swimming and some pasta whipped up from what could be found in our cupboard, Mistress finally got around to what I had been waiting for.

Upstairs, in our bedroom, she had slipped into something black, short and silky.

Nice.

I stripped away the shorts and T-shirt.

“Go put in your device, Slave,” she ommanded, eyeing my naked form.

“Yes, Mistress.”

I retrieved the little white probe, lubed it up and slid it home. The effect is both physical and mental, as I suspect some of our readers can appreciate.

Sliding onto the bed, I positioned myself to suck on her needy little cunt. But Mistress had other ideas.

“Why don’t you get on the floor Slave. …. I like that angle, better.”

“Absolutely, Mistress.”

I positioned a pillow on my floor, knelt and began my worship with a long, languorous stroke of tongue to spread Mistress’s clean shaven lips.

Yum.

And the probe on my ass seemed to have its usual effect, making my cock full and firm before any physical stimulation.

I sucked Mistress’s little bud between lips and teeth, and to change things up a bit, moistened a finger in Mistress’s cunt with a subversive purpose.

Mistress and her Master seem to do a lot of talking about his preordained taking of her virgin ass. That “forbidden” act only the thought of which made Mistress squeamish in the past - and which she denied to her “starter master” several months ago – seems to be something that she now craves.

M has certainly reengineered her desires in a compelling way.

And it would be wrong – so very wrong – for her Slave to take something that she has promised to another.

But that doesn’t mean I can’t stoke her desires and fantasies with a little digital stimulation, does it?

So that moistened finger slid up and inside her as I turned my sucking up a notch. And – lickity split – no pun intended – Mistress was moaning and coming and moaning and coming for me.

When she settled down, Mistress gave her instructions, in a sultry, far away voice.

“I want you to fuck me now, Slave.”

I liked to hear the need in her voice.

And that was a command I was ready, anxious and able to fulfill.

A Wanton Display

By Sunday night I could tell Mistress was getting a little … edgy. She and M had been unable to arrange one of their phone “dates” over the weekend. Schedules and stars did not align correctly.

It had been on, then off in Sunday evening. So instead of begging for release as he muttered scenarios of her debauchery over the phone, the Hitachi churning between her legs, Mistress ended up excavating the layers of refuse and tank tops in surly teen number 2’s bedroom. 

She went from the sublime to REAL torture, and not the kind involving nipple clamps.

Of course, Mistress had  more than fair share of orgasms over the weekend, as one could see from our postings. But she had not had the proper balance of Slave and Master that she seems to crave these days.

Monday morning we were off to our respective offices.

 Focus, Focus, Focus.

There was just time for one of those shower orgasms for her, when I slide my fingers between her wet folds, kiss her passionately and get her off with a little shudder and giggle. 

Hardly enough to get her through the day.

And from the reports I was receiving her day was a series of long and boring meetings, with little time to engage either M or me in any smutty diversions.

When I came down from my perch and met her in the lobby of my office tower at around 5:30, I found her looking a bit frazzled, though amply fetching, in a black and white patterned cotton dress that flitted about her thighs.

But what she said took even me by surprise.

“M wants me to get me off  on the ride home, Slave.    I told him you wouldn’t mind.”

Well …. I suppose I wouldn’t.

“He’s been trying to get me all day …. But I’ve been so busy. So he said, let’s just do it on your drive home.”

“Fine with me, Mistress.”

“Yes….I told him you would love it.”

We took the elevator down to the bowels of the building where my car was parked against a wall. Mistress quickly climbed inside, and hiked up her dress.

“I’m taking off my undies, Slave….”

Yes, she was. Her feet askew, ass wriggling,  her black panties sliding down her legs,  and then off.

Very efficient. She had swiftly transitioned from frazzled but focused business executive to his little wanton slut, desperate to dig her fingers into what must surely have been a sopping cunt.

I would have liked to dig in too, but I was focusing on navigating the car out of the garage before one of my colleagues caught a glimpse of Mistress’s naked cunt, now on full display, through the passenger side window.

Before we even pulled onto a downtown street, Mistress was dialing M up.

“We are a few blocks from the highway, and there are lots of folks and cars around us. But I know you are in a hurray…..”

My sense was that M had a tight schedule now, but had a need to get Mistress off as much as she needed him.

“I’m slidng the seat back, M.”

Her feet were up on the dash. Her knees spread wide, giving her fingers free and ready access.  The seat was in full recline. Mistress was  providing a lascivious view to anyone who bothered to peer through our window.

I wanted to watch the action, but I was also steering through some end of day traffic, and trying to make sure that we did not come to a stop next to some teenaged girls in the car in the lane to our right, who’s wandering eyes might be a tad shocked.

The sounds I heard were the squishing of fingers against damp flesh, and mumbled  responses to her Master’s compelling voice.

“Yes”.

 “Ummmm”

“Of course I would…..”

“I’m listening….”

Then a burst of impassioned  moans.

Out of the corner of my eye I caught Mistress’s hips rising off the car seat. Her thighs were scissoring and squeezing against her roving fingers.

When she came down she thrust a damp and musky finger between my lips, letting me savor her musky taste.

We had not even made it onto the expressway.

“That was fast M.”

An understatement. 

They talked a bit more. Mistress’s legs were still spread wide, her feet still parked on the dash.

A minute or two later, as I navigated up the expressway, taking particular care to zip past truckers who would have gotten an eyeful of they had glanced our way, the cycle began anew.

“He wants me to do it for him again, Slave.”

Her head was back against the seat, eyes screwed shut, focused on his voice and the fingers that were sliding with purpose through her glistening folds.

And, again within moments she was coming for him, moaning her passion, her hips bouncing from side to side in her leather bucket seat.

Hopefully the lady in the pickup truck next to us was not too distracted.

Sadly, M had to ring off. Mistress allowed me to savor her flavors by licking off her fingers again.

“So what was he telling you, Mistress that made you so hot?”

“Oh the usual, Slave”

She was underselling, probably a little embarrassed at how quickly she can succumb to him.

But if she had let her fingers rove below my belt line at the moment, she would have understood that “the usual”  worked for me too.