Or is it Morning IS Broken? Hate to dredge up an old Cat Stevens song, but I was searching for some catchy way to kick off yet another re-boot of the UCTMW blog. And for those of you concerned, yes, Mistress and slave's wake up (morning) sex is still a daily ritual here at the SW hideaway. But, sadly, there has not been much kinky or cuckold sex going on here at the hideaway. We spent a little too much time in Europe last year with our lovely daughters. And we are still confronted with the problem finding suitable playmates here in our small high desert town.
Not for lack of trying. We still have a profile on Collarspace, and a seemingly dormant profile on Fetlife. But not much action.
There was one couple who responded to our Fetlife post a while back. She was about Molly's age. He was about 10 years younger and purported to be a "Dom". Mistress seemed potentially smitten by him at first. There was a meet over drinks encounter, then a laid back dinner at our house, where the wife expressed what we took to be an expression of interest in moving forward. And while we had never gotten involved with a couple, slave was willing to "take one for the team". But the husband seemed to fade into the background as she took the initiative going forward. It seemed she wanted to get into Molly's pants. Bottom line, it never panned out.
More recently we got an overture from a guy on Collarspace from a nearby town who seemed age and interests compatible with Mistress. But when we agreed to exchange photos via gmail, all we got were dick picks.
Yuck! Mistress does not judge potential partners (solely) on the dimensions of their tool. Turns out he was also married and needed to keep any relationship hush hush. That would never work for Mistress, who is too experienced to want to play "hide-and-seek".
But then came another candidate from that same nearby town who put himself forward. The profile seemed to have potential until you came to the age line.
"Slave, he's half my age. Younger than our two kids. That would never work". And who is the lowly cuckold to question Mistress's judgment?
But then....that last candidate persisted. Maybe it doesn't lead to anything smutty, he proposed, let's get to know one another. That led to a chain of emails where he shared some of his interests and experiences, and the cuck reciprocated. This youngster also demonstrated a clever turn of phrase and healthy sense of humor, something I know Mistress always appreciates as much as skills under the sheets. (Heck, how else did she end up with me?)
He asked about our experiences and interests, and I was candid. I was also curious about how he got into the whole cuckold thing.
"I have been involved with couples before. I was introduced to the lifestyle in college when a girl came on to me. I knew she had a boyfriend, so I asked what the deal was and she explained. I've always had dominant tendencies, particularly in the bedroom, so it came naturally to me. From there I didn't always seek out couples, but often had an eye out and have had a few dynamics (though, like you, it has been a little while). She had a wild streak, he was on the submissive side. He was basically along for the ride. It was an excellent learning experience and jumping off point for bigger and better adventures for me."
Now that was a surprise to me. I always thought the whole cuckolding thing popped up when more mature married couples decided to spice things up. It was hard to imagine that as a college age guy I would get off on sharing my girl friend. And yet, I have noticed some fiction out there focusing in college campus cuckolds. Who knew it really happened?
When he pressed us on more details on our own experiences, I took the easy way out and pointed him to this blog, though it had been dormant for a while. He seemed to enjoy and had some interesting reactions.
"It's intriguing to read a blog written by clearly educated people. I find it easier to connect with similarly educated, intelligent, and curious people.
"For some reason I am (pleasantly) surprised by the amount of power exchange in your blog. Somehow I got the sense that you were not as into that sort of thing. It is definitely up my alley. The pinned list of wants for a part-time Dom describes me to a T (except I'm short a few years, but we've established that)."
Of course, Slave is easily flattered when someone takes a shine to our collective works here at UCTMW. And I was intrigued by some of his perceptive follow up comments. Like these:
"I was additionally surprised to find a level of "forced bi" play in your blog posts. I'm not sure why you guys struck me as more buttoned up initially.
I love forced bi dynamics for the same reason you guys do, or at least professed to in the posts I enjoyed last night. I am not attracted to men in any way, but find exerting my dominance over both hotwife and cuckold extremely erotic. Sharing a tender moment with the wife while cuckie cleans our juices off my cock, laughing with her as we make "him" prepare me for her, and seeing her face twist as I have her administrate a particularly cruel torment on my behalf are all some of my favorites."
As the conversation progressed, I told him all this had gotten me interested in re-booting the blog, and would he mind us sharing some of these communications with our "massive" devoted readership. (If you are still out there!) He agreed and even proposed some terms and conditions, including some rearrangements on the masthead, indexing upgrades and "Not to push my luck too hard, but I think it's only right that Mick only be referred to as "the cuckold" or some variation thereof (e.g. cucky, cucklette, sissy, etc.) from now on."
All that seemed reasonable to "the cuckold" and a reasonable price to pay for the inspiration to relaunch the blog, which, has always been a helpful accelerant for Mistress and her cuck's wake up sex.
We even mulled over what to call "him", on the blog seemed to agree on "Nascent Bull" (NB) reflecting both his age, his experiences and his aspirations.
Of course, the jury is out on whether Mistress will ultimately stick to her initial judgment that he is "way too young". It's her call on whether to open that door, or keep it closed. But at the least, all this might lead to some interesting blog posts.
Curious to hear from any readers still clicking on this link to know what they think about the potential "young dom" tames "cougar hot wife" scenario.
Collarspace and Fetlife have never worked for me, so I deleted those accounts years ago. Craigslist personals was fantastic, until they killed it. Never tried any other "dating apps" as from what I hear, they all blow. So, it makes it challenging.
ReplyDeleteFetLife has been more useful for me as a networking tool and way to be aware of local events and communities than for specifically finding partners/couples (though said networking and awareness has lead to fun, of course). Collarspace, as with most methods of finding deviant companionship, is a mixed bag. Every now and then there's a gem, but for the most part it is a misery. Patience, persistence, and a wide net have been the keys to my success (though I don't proclaim to be a Casanova).
ReplyDeleteGlad to see you back. Looking forward to keeping up with your adventures.
ReplyDeleteIt sounds kind of hot. Not sure age should be an issue if the chemistry is good. Glad to hear morning sex is continuing unabated for now. I guess NB would have a say if he’s into the control aspect. Better make sure the cage is still working. FF
ReplyDeleteI agree that it is hot. While older partners are not something I seek out, basic statistics mean I find many more of them than younger (as an aside I feel much more comfortable with dominating a much older couple than I do couples much younger than myself).
DeleteNB certainly is into the control aspect, and you are very astute to guess that I might want to put the cage(s) to use.