Home for the Holidays

It's been some time since we posted here. A few of you have asked "what's up, Molly and mick?..... where are those frequent updates.... anything wrong in UCTMW world?"

Well, things are just fine.  While Mistress does not have an active "cuckolder" in her life, we've still got our almost every day sexual action going, keeping the home fires burning in a way that likely exceeds what happens in most marital beds for couples younger than us.

So why no cuckold action?  It's not that we've turned the page on that.  Mistress remains open to the notion of an extracurricular lover.  But she is selective, as she should be. Quite frankly, the on-line sources like OKCupid and Collarspace have turned into cold trails here. And it's hard to find someone willing to plunge into someone else's marriage in the fashion we prefer who has the physique, conversational skills and enough macho spark to peak Mistress's interest.

It's something we talk about from time to time.

Example: Mistress goes to a local Y to swim laps, now that the cold weather has come to the heartland.

"There are a few guys who swim who seem to flirt every now and then, slave....."

"Hmmm..... go for it Mistress......"

Then there was this from yesterday.....

"I talked to Jay today,  slave.... its been a while......"

"How did that go, Mistress?"

"He seems good.  He even asked if I would consider "hanging out" with him again sometime."

"Hanging out?  What does that mean?"

"I think it means having sex again, slave.'

"So what did you say?"

"I told him I was open to the idea if he wasn't going to get pissed off at me again.,,,"

"Did he really get pissed off?   Or just mysteriously go off the map?"

"I suppose that was it, slave.  He tends to disappear just when things are warming up again".

Our theory on Jay is that he likes spending time with Mistress, but then gets cranky about the idea of "sharing" with her husband, explaining why he has occasionally gone dark on her just when things seem to be going well.

Is this a common problems for practitioners of cuckolding or "open marriages"?

We've just started watching a new Netflix show titled "Wanderlust", a 6 episode mini-series starring Toni Collette, about a suburban English couple who stumble into an "open marriage" arrangement and realize it can provide a much needed spark to their own sexual relationship.  But, as with us, they also discover that not every sexual partner wants to know that his married affair-partner is doing it with her/his spouses knowledge and encouragement.

For most guys, maybe they see the whole thing as a "reverse-cuckold" that makes them squeamish.

In any event, it turns out we can be quite happy and sexually active without an active cuckolder involved.

We hope all of our readers are happy and active too!  Enjoy the holidays!