Mistress Shops for a Dom

It was a little too busy here in River City over the holiday weekend. I had a new granddaughter to visit, and there was much  hoopla associated with that, including some extra time tending to my cute grandkids, and a visiting daughter. For her part,  Mistress was catering to the needs of our older daughter, who was in town with her earnest fiance, running a variety of wedding planning errands. And there was a Monday morning brunch hosted by the Dowager Domme

By Monday afternoon, when all of the family duties were discharged, Mistress and slave were ready to crash. (Rest assured we were able to squeeze in some early morning wake up sex, though we had to "stifle" to avoid disturbing the engaged couple across the hall).

But by Tuesday evening, we were back into our empty nesting groove, meeting with another OKCupid "prospect" at a local watering hole in a downtown hipster neighborhood.

This one seems to have potential.  JJ (what is it about J's?) is a local guy, tall and about 50, who meets Mistress's exacting standards on a physical level.  He also piques her interest on an intellectual level as well --- JJ is very well traveled, with some interesting stories about his adventures growing up on South Africa and Antwerp, and then as a member of the merchant marine living in the Caribbean.

One thing that was a little amusing (or unnerving) was that we clearly know many of the same people.  We were sitting at the window of this corner bar. Several mutual acquaintances walked by, giving the three of us a wave.  One local politico even came inside to chat with the three of us, not expressing much surprise that we knew one another.

After said politico took the opportunity to ask us for a campaign donation, he ambled on. We laughed about the coincidence.  "Think he's now speculating about how we know one another?, I offered.

But I know what all of you are asking....."get to the point Mick?  Was their any sexual sizzle betwixt JJ and Mistress?"

There certainly is some potential.

JJ clearly "gets" the cuckold dynamic. He's had some experience with other couples, but they are all out of town and / or faded away.

He wasn't reluctant to press Mistress for her "expectations" and "hard limits" when it came to potential interactions.  On her part, Mistress was a little timid, not willing to venture too much about what she might like or dislike so early on in this mutual exploration.

We did share our own pecking order with JJ, in response to his query.

Looking at both of us, he bluntly asked, "So who's in charge here?"

I made it clear that Mistress is in charge, though I did not share that she had me in my cock cage for this particular rendezvous. TMI, at least for the moment.

JJ  also wanted to know if we are open to some 3-way interactions, something he claimed to have experience with. Looking at me, he said. "Does he watch, or do you just tell him about it afterwards?"

We shared that we had only one real "watching" experience, but were certainly open to more.

JJ he was clearly taken with Mistress, making it clear that he was ready to move onto a more intimate exploration of her charms.

One drink turned into three. The sun set. The bar emptied.  We all headed home after nearly three hours of chat.  I stood to pay the bill and let the two of them negotiate next steps. When I came back to the table, JJ was putting Mistress's phone number into his I-phone. Mistress then asked if he was busy Saturday evening, and he said he was,  if it involved spending time with Mistress. I wasn't sure what Mistress had in mind -- a solo date maybe?  It was her call, and she made it.

"Then you can come over to our house. Mick will cook. "

He readily accepted her invitation for an evening at home with us, but took the opportunity to make clear what his expectations of Mistress were for their second encounter.

"Wear something revealing....".

Mistress actually  blushed at that directive.  But brooked no dissent.

"I can do that.....", she said.

By the time we got home, Mistress reported that she already had a text from JJ.

"He says I'm very sexy, slave....."

No doubt about that.  And I'm wondering what sort of revealing outfit Mistress has planned.

Slave Gets Used for Mistress's Pleasure

Mistress and slave met with OKCupid prospect #2 on Thursday evening. "Sam" is  tall, skinny, and in very good shape. About 50. He's a former paratrooper with a southern accent who now works for River City's biggest employer's. Sam is into motorcycles. Definitely the alpha type, but not in a redneck sort of way. He and his wife have recently dipped into the "open relationship" waters. She took the opportunity presented by her husband's meet and greet with us to spend the evening with her "boy toy".

We met at a local restaurant, shared drinks and a meal, and chatted about our respective backgrounds and experience.  There seemed to be quite a few synchronicities, including tastes in music and an affection for the outdoors and the west. He sat across from Mistress at our table, and it wasn't long before I was feeling like a "chaperone", trying to leave the conversation to the two prospective lovers, and feeling like an unnecessary third wheel. I could tell Mistress was  at least somewhat open to the new prospect when she ordered a second beverage as our plates were cleared. But although we had arranged in advance for her to signal me if she wanted me to get lost for a while, I never got that signal.

Sam seemed enthralled with Mistress (who wouldn't be?), never letting his eyes scan the room away from Mistress's fetching visage. But he didn't seem too annoyed that her husband was tagging along. "I get it. I'm  very antsy when my wife meets someone for the first time.  I'm always nearby, ready to come to the rescue if needed."

By the time the meal ended, they were making plans to get in touch again. Unfortunately, Sam and his wife are heading to Italy for a vacation this week, and after that Mistress and slave will be traveling too. It won't be until Mid-July that there will be time for them to go on an unchaperoned date. In the morning, there was a very nice email from him by the next morning. "I had a wonderful time meeting you.  You are funny, intelligent and gorgeous. I must confess I was a bit distracted by your piercing eyes. I hope it wasn't too mitigable."  Clearly, the guy knows how to sweet-talk a lady. Mistress was impressed.

Friday was a busy day for us. After some early wakeup sex, there was a bike ride, then a trip to the airport to fetch our daughter and her fiancé. They are here for the holiday weekend for some wedding planning activities. Luckily, slave did not have to go on the girls' trip to pick a wedding dress.

By the end of that expedition (which was a success), Mistress was ready for an evening at home. The happy couple were off with their friends, leaving us empty nesters for the night. Slave grilled some salmon and we ate in our placid secret garden, the birds serenading us. As the sun set, we came back inside to watch the final few episodes of "I Love Dick".  Cuckold fans will be happy to know that those magic works "Please Fuck My Wife" make their appearance in the penultimate episode. But I won't disclose the ending for those of you who may want to watch.

Suffice it to say that the sexual action in a few scenes were enough to prime Mistress's pump.  She was lying there next to me on the couch, in one of those short nighties I have gifted her over the years. Slave's acute, well conditioned  senses detected her mounting arousal. I naturally came to her rescue, using my experienced digits to bring her to a rather dramatic climax before the semi-cliffhanger ending of Season 1.

I assumed that my work on that from was done. But I was wrong.

As we climbed  the stairs to bed, Mistress made clear that all that cuckold action had left her with an itch that needed more scratching.

"I need my cock, slave."

It was late and I had a little uncertainly about my ability to perform. But it turned out that I was able to rise to the occasion. There was more worship and some robust cockriding before the night was done.  Rest assured that Mistress's itch was very well scratched before our two little lovebirds reinfested the nest sometime after midnight.

I Love Dick

No, slave is not changing teams. I'm simply referring to  the new Amazon series by that name that has some interesting cuckold themes worth watching.

The show features Katheryn  Hahn as a 40's something wife who's pretentiously  professorial husband (played by Griffin Dunne) takes her off to Marfa, TX on sabbatical. His fellowship is sponsored by Dick, a cowboy / sculptor / rich guy.  The wife gets a glimpse of Dick in his Marlboro man get-up and  is immediately smitten. Her wimpy  hubby gets the dividend of a suddenly sexually voracious wife.

The second episode features some rather explicit marital sex inspired by the mutual  fantasy that Dick is in the bedroom, supervising and deciding when Katherine and cum.

Mistress and slave are only about 4 episodes deep into the series. So far Dick seems disinterested in Katherine's crushing on him. But who knows where this might head. Here's a link to the trailer.I Love Dick. No cock cages yet for the hubby. They may be waiting for season 2.

In the meantime, Mistress is fending off entreaties from the guy we met Sunday night for a quick step to the "horizontal" aka "test fuck" phase.  She has two more "interviews" to conduct before deciding with whom or whether to move forward.

Tonight we are meeting a guy at a local bar who is new to the "open marriage" scene. He's about 50, and his wife is 40 (according to her own OK Cupid profile). Sounds as if his wife has had a little more luck in scoring. (Big surprise!) When we suggested that maybe his wife should join, he demurred on her behalf. "When she heard I was occupied Thursday night, she immediately set up her own date with her 'boy toy'".  Sounds like another wife who likes them fresh out of diapers. So unfair to us old farts!

We will let you all know how this evening's encounter goes.

Night With the Swingers

Mistress and slave had an interesting evening out last night. We shared some beverages and greasy bar food with a couple from the ex-urbs who have been "playing" in the world of swinging and open marriage for more than a decade. The husband - James - had found Mistress via her new OKCupid profile.  The wife has her own less wordy profile too, and the two cross-post their spouse's profiles. They are both 49 yrs. old, so just a tad younger than Mistress.

Of the two, the wife (Laura) was a little more "colorful" and loquacious. She's an English professor turned personal trainer. Somehow she made the transition from Shakespeare to body building, and her physique is rather . . . impressive. She claims she can bench press 500 lbs., and I would not be the one to argue with her.

The husband - James - is a bearded guy (what's with  beards and polyamory?) who works in IT. Laura and James met in the Air Force in some godforsaken town in Arkansas, where, in the absence of a Wal-Mart or a decent cable package, nature took it's course.  They had kids, and are now empty nesters, like us.

Both had some entertaining stories to share about their adventures, which started with swinging. The problem with swinging,  they explained, is that it's extremely rare when both spouses in a swinging couple are appealing to their potential swinging mates.

"Someone always has to take one for the team", Laura explained.

Bummer.

So they evolved into an open marriage where they play separately.

Laura, who is smart, funny and very gabby,  has a thing for younger guys, who she finds on OKCupid and some sort of swinger's web site. And by younger, maybe 20 years younger, or even more. (Clearly, Slave is outside of  her preferred demographic by about 40 years.)  She's got a flexible schedule, so she's able to host at her house in the mornings or afternoons when her husband is off at work.  The only problem is the nosy neighbor across the street, who seems to raise an eyebrow when that strange SUV shows up in the driveway shortly after James heads to work.

And Laura - unlike Mistress - has no problems with the married guys looking for some side action on the sly.  They scratch her particular itch, without being all clingy or wanting to crowd her personal life.

Laura is also a very busy lady, somehow balancing 3-4 guys at a time.

"Some weeks there might be only two", she explained. "But the other week, it was four. Sometimes it can be a little hard to juggle them all."  There's the married guy who's wife won't have sex with him. The guy in his 20's who is very "enthusiastic". A barely out of his teens guy who offered to share his own girlfriend with James. And some Italian soccer player who will be stopping by Friday evening to make her an Italian meal while James is out on his own play date.

Mistress and Laura hit it off instantly, bonding over literature and swimming, which James found to be amusing. Wasn't this supposed to be his chance to get into Mistress's pants?

James was pleasant and easy going, but considerably more taciturn than his wife. He's only got three on and off ladies to please. He mentioned one married lady - her husband is in on the deal - who insists that for their dates he spends at least three hours "on task".  "There's a glass of wine. Some conversation. And then things get more physical", he explained.

Laura's only problem is that when James returns from these encounters "he stinks of cocoanut oil. I send him straight to the shower."

On the other hand, It seems that Laura's encounters are much more purpose driven.  I doubt those SUV's are in her driveway for more than an hour on those weekday mornings or afternoons. It's just a part of her exercise routine.

The two clearly are comfortable with their choices. Like me, James gets a kick out of hearing all the steamy details following his wife's extra-curricular encounters. But Laura doesn't need the smutty play-by-play. She "just wants to make sure he had a good time....."

So where do we go with this?  Mistress seems open to the next step with James. What he and Laura called the "test fuck" phase.  We now know that there is a degree of social compatibility. "I thought his personality was attractive, slave." But who knows if the chemistry is sufficient to get beyond that initial audition for the role of "side dish"?

As for me? I am way outside the age range that Laura goes for. But I couldn't help consider what it might be like to "serve" Laura. If I didn't please her, those powerful weight lifter's thighs could crack my cranium like a walnut! Or maybe she'd pick me up and toss me out a window.  Better stick to the ground floor if I ever mess around with her!

BTW,  Mistress has two more interviews of potential suitors in the next week or so.

Stay tuned.