Sullen teen # 1 returned home yesterday from a trip to equatorial climes with her grandmother. A Lovely high school graduation present, which I suspect that grandmother enjoyed every bit as much as the teen.
It was good to have her back, and Slave made a nice dinner - grilled salmon, roasted potatoes, green beans – for the four of us.
Sitting down for dinner, it brought up the ticking clock: in almost exactly 30 days, both of them will have de-nested: # 1 off to college; #2 off to Europe for a year of study abroad.
Yikes.
Sure, we will miss them, and while #1 will only be about an hour away and is likely to show up on our doorstep with dirty laundry and to visit her cats more often than we may come to like, #2 really will be gone for about 11 months. There certainly will be gulps and red eyes when we see her off at the airport on August 17.
But … Can you imagine the “trouble” Mistress and Slave can get into if left to their own devices?
Naked Sundays?
For sure.
Finding various nooks and cranies of the house to “break in”, or maybe adapt for kinkier purposes.
Certainly.
Maybe even some special guest stars to add to our Blog.
Camp Molly and Mick anyone?
Kinky Kooking Klasses?
It will be a small consolation prize, I suspect, even as we miss the little ladies that seem to have grown up so quickly.
In the meantime, we will be spending a little more time than normal with the teens, to the extent they will allow it, knowing that opportunities to build on the O count are just around the corner.
And that’s not to say that Slave will not continue to do his duty around here. Last night, after we greeted our long lost teen, and I slid the potatoes into the oven, I made sure that Mistress was given some devoted worship, sucking away until she’d had at least two orgasms, her hips rising off the bed and those little muffled sighs emitting from her lips.
Yum.
Makes me want to shut down here and go upstairs for more, before it’s time to head to work.
Oh, and here’s an extra reading assignment. Apparently one of our female Presidential candidates has a submissive streak – but only because the bible says it’s the right thing to do. Check it out here (a submissive President?).
Do you think Margaret Thatcher submitted to dottering Dennis?
Wednesday, July 20, 2011
Tuesday, July 19, 2011
Hot, Humid Weather Forces Indoor Exercise
Mistress and Slave must have gotten over their post vacation lethargy, based on yesterday’s O count. There was our usual wake-up sex, commenced with the traditional “Slave licks, Mistress reads”, as she perused our blog.
Then, shortly after her lunch with a business colleague, Mistress breezed into my office for a little “apertif” courtesy of my devoted lips and tongue. It’s a routine that Slave can’t get enough of and that Mistress seems to enjoy as well. And it is so remediating to rest my head against her inner thigh, her hands sliding across my scalp for a minute or two after Mistress has her fill with my oral attention.
That little break always recharges me for the rest of my busy day.
We had driven together, so Mistress met me in the lobby of my office tower around 5:15 for the drive home. She as chatting with the WC as I stepped out of the elevator, and told him she would call back once we were on the road.
Mistress was wearing a short, brownish cotton dress, and I could tell that she had been ogled a bit on her walk across town. She had that sexy glow she gets when talking to her distant “boyfriend”, and her mood was infectious. I was already wondering of I could somehow dodge that scheduled bike ride in this oppressive humidity and heat, and get some more intimate exercise once we got home.
On our drive, Mistress got the WC back on the line. Of course I could only hear one side of the conversation, but she filled me in on the rest once she signed off.There was some talk about the cock picture he had sent her for her birthday….
“You told me about your 2 hours of epic sex with B…. but when did you have the time to send that picture….”
(He claims that he took it during the “epic sex”, when B had something else to do….)
“How did you do that , say …. Hold on honey…. I need to take a picture of my cock before it gets deflated….”
I did forget to mention that Mistress and the WC also had a brief “date” on Sunday afternoon, as Slave was rooting for the ladies’ soccer team …. They covered that subject too, as Slave negotiated through stop and go expressway traffic on the way home, catching occasional glimpses of Mistress’s buff and tanned thighs, spread next to me.
“Where did you get that story you told me from, M….. I figured it was just a continuation of your morning sex with B.”
(She later shared a bit of the story…. “I was in bed with the two of them Slave…. sucking her tits as he fucked me… you know, that whole thing._)
Whatever the theme, it seemed to help put a nice little exclamation point on Mistress’s birthday on Sunday.
By the time we got home, and Mistress realized that the hazy, mid-90’s air was ardly hospitable to a post work bike ride, I was anle to pitch some pre-dinner “relaxation” time.
And you can imagine where that led. Mistress was worshipped as she read your comments, as well as some of the other hot entries that popped up yesterday. She seemed a little surprised though when I suggested some pre-dinner fucking after she had been suitably serviced.
“Why Slave…. you surprise me….”
It’s good to know I still have that capablility.
Monday, July 18, 2011
Mistress's Evaluation of her Slave
As Suzanne noted in her own Blog, All Mine, yesterday, it was an anomaly of our calendar that Mistress’s birthday ended up on our Sunday switch day.
Sort of like the slot machine hitting three oranges.
Aisha asked the other day why we included a Switch Day in our contract. It arose from some discussions we had during the drafting and negotiation stage. In the past, Mick had always enjoyed using a little bondage and some occasional “discipline” in our sex, going back to our pre-marital, “dating” days back in the 1980’s. My sense was that Molly always enjoyed it. So even though the decision had been made that it was time for me to submit to her authority in this phase of our life, it made sense to provide this little recreational opportunity for both of us.
With it established as a firm date on our calendar, it also assures that Slave does not get lazy and slack off when the opportunity presents itself. All in all, it’s made for some very hot encounters, as the written and photographic record here at UCTMW attests, and seems to provide a balance that might otherwise be missing for Molly, who might otherwise get a little tired of being “in charge” 24/7.
(I do wonder whether the need for (or dynamics of) switch day in our life might change if Mistress ever acquired that part time Dom that she fancies).
In any event, there we were – Molly’s birthday and out Anniversary – and our Switch Day. After I presented Molly with a little surprise gift she had not anticipated, and we read our morning papers for a while it was time for me to execute her “sentence”.
The red cuffs were applied. I pulled a hard wooden chair to the middle of our bedroom floor, and made sure the Hitachi was handy.
“What are you doing, Slave.”
“It’s your birthday, Mistress…. Time for a birthday spanking….”
I turned on a Celtic radio show to make sure the sounds that we would be generating were not audible down the hall to sullen teen # 2. Mistress was pulled over my lap, her tush well positioned.
I gave her some light and deft strokes, fingers probing a bit between her legs. The little slut was already wet in anticipation (or was that because I had been licking her so persuasively as she had read the blog a few minutes earlier).
Then I proceeded, counting in my head so as not to make too much noise. After each set of ten, I paused for some more gentle teasing caresses.
She did squirm, Oh so delightfully.
After about 30 I feigned that I had lost track of the count. Mistress very accurately supplied the right number. It was good to know that she wasn’t going to cheat herself or me to the exact quota of her big day.
(Of course, if she had added an extra 10, there would have been a penalty).
When I was done, and added one for “luck”, Mistress had a very red ass, and was squirming anxiously on my lap. She was more than ready for her birthday treat: the application of the power tool between those luscious pink ass cheeks.
Still draped across my lap, she wriggled and moaned with delight as I brought her to the edge, and granted her permission to come.
And when she had her first, she requested that we return to our bed for a couple of more cums with the Hitachi before I took my own pleasure from her.
So you can see that this birthday switch day was a special one for Mistress.
And for me too, since later in the day, Mistress typed up her annual evaluation of her Slave for me to share with all of you:
First and foremost, with a shout out to Miss Behavior… you are correct sister, that we at UCTMW (Americans) purport to reflect those great old American, Puritan values and work ethic, and look like a corporate empire. But I assure you that Mick and I really seek to work as little as possible and would much rather spend our days involved with each other’s bodies and writing about it. This going to work stuff is for the birds. Simply put, it is getting in the way of our higher pursuits!
Sadly, Mick and I are deeply steeped in how individuals should be evaluated (in the workplace) and how to course correct to ensure continual improvement (does that sound straight out of HR or what?) I am close to a wholesale change in my own daytime work life. There has to be a better way to pay for college and multiple mortgages. Shall we all unite and find advertisers for our blogs? Have them “bound” and sell as literary tombs? Let me know.
But here is the bottom line on Mick’s evaluation for the last year:
I agree 150% with his personal assessment. I might have given him higher scores than he has given himself. In the coming year, I would like him to focus on the following though:
1) Molly’s workday stress and desire to fix it: trust me on this. I will continue to pull my weight. Be supportive. Indulge my unbridled Great American optimism.
2) When I ask you for the 12th time of the day how I look, do not smirk or roll your eyes…simply repeat that I am ravishing.
3) Be honest about other women that you find hot. I can see through the white lies.
4) Be kinder to our darling cats. They make me VERY happy and we don’t want those cure little girls to have a complex about men. It’s up to you.
Mick,
On the sex and attention part, you are wonderful. I truly enjoyed the surprise birthday gift and our special anniversary. I would like to renew for another year.
Love
Molly
Thank you, Mistress. Of course, I want to renew too, though I don’t think I have the technical option to choose under our contract. I’ll make sure to focus on these tasks in the months to come.
Sort of like the slot machine hitting three oranges.
Aisha asked the other day why we included a Switch Day in our contract. It arose from some discussions we had during the drafting and negotiation stage. In the past, Mick had always enjoyed using a little bondage and some occasional “discipline” in our sex, going back to our pre-marital, “dating” days back in the 1980’s. My sense was that Molly always enjoyed it. So even though the decision had been made that it was time for me to submit to her authority in this phase of our life, it made sense to provide this little recreational opportunity for both of us.
With it established as a firm date on our calendar, it also assures that Slave does not get lazy and slack off when the opportunity presents itself. All in all, it’s made for some very hot encounters, as the written and photographic record here at UCTMW attests, and seems to provide a balance that might otherwise be missing for Molly, who might otherwise get a little tired of being “in charge” 24/7.
(I do wonder whether the need for (or dynamics of) switch day in our life might change if Mistress ever acquired that part time Dom that she fancies).
In any event, there we were – Molly’s birthday and out Anniversary – and our Switch Day. After I presented Molly with a little surprise gift she had not anticipated, and we read our morning papers for a while it was time for me to execute her “sentence”.
The red cuffs were applied. I pulled a hard wooden chair to the middle of our bedroom floor, and made sure the Hitachi was handy.
“What are you doing, Slave.”
“It’s your birthday, Mistress…. Time for a birthday spanking….”
I turned on a Celtic radio show to make sure the sounds that we would be generating were not audible down the hall to sullen teen # 2. Mistress was pulled over my lap, her tush well positioned.
I gave her some light and deft strokes, fingers probing a bit between her legs. The little slut was already wet in anticipation (or was that because I had been licking her so persuasively as she had read the blog a few minutes earlier).
Then I proceeded, counting in my head so as not to make too much noise. After each set of ten, I paused for some more gentle teasing caresses.
She did squirm, Oh so delightfully.
After about 30 I feigned that I had lost track of the count. Mistress very accurately supplied the right number. It was good to know that she wasn’t going to cheat herself or me to the exact quota of her big day.
(Of course, if she had added an extra 10, there would have been a penalty).
When I was done, and added one for “luck”, Mistress had a very red ass, and was squirming anxiously on my lap. She was more than ready for her birthday treat: the application of the power tool between those luscious pink ass cheeks.
Still draped across my lap, she wriggled and moaned with delight as I brought her to the edge, and granted her permission to come.
And when she had her first, she requested that we return to our bed for a couple of more cums with the Hitachi before I took my own pleasure from her.
So you can see that this birthday switch day was a special one for Mistress.
And for me too, since later in the day, Mistress typed up her annual evaluation of her Slave for me to share with all of you:
First and foremost, with a shout out to Miss Behavior… you are correct sister, that we at UCTMW (Americans) purport to reflect those great old American, Puritan values and work ethic, and look like a corporate empire. But I assure you that Mick and I really seek to work as little as possible and would much rather spend our days involved with each other’s bodies and writing about it. This going to work stuff is for the birds. Simply put, it is getting in the way of our higher pursuits!
Sadly, Mick and I are deeply steeped in how individuals should be evaluated (in the workplace) and how to course correct to ensure continual improvement (does that sound straight out of HR or what?) I am close to a wholesale change in my own daytime work life. There has to be a better way to pay for college and multiple mortgages. Shall we all unite and find advertisers for our blogs? Have them “bound” and sell as literary tombs? Let me know.
But here is the bottom line on Mick’s evaluation for the last year:
I agree 150% with his personal assessment. I might have given him higher scores than he has given himself. In the coming year, I would like him to focus on the following though:
1) Molly’s workday stress and desire to fix it: trust me on this. I will continue to pull my weight. Be supportive. Indulge my unbridled Great American optimism.
2) When I ask you for the 12th time of the day how I look, do not smirk or roll your eyes…simply repeat that I am ravishing.
3) Be honest about other women that you find hot. I can see through the white lies.
4) Be kinder to our darling cats. They make me VERY happy and we don’t want those cure little girls to have a complex about men. It’s up to you.
Mick,
On the sex and attention part, you are wonderful. I truly enjoyed the surprise birthday gift and our special anniversary. I would like to renew for another year.
Love
Molly
Thank you, Mistress. Of course, I want to renew too, though I don’t think I have the technical option to choose under our contract. I’ll make sure to focus on these tasks in the months to come.
Sunday, July 17, 2011
A Birthday, Anniversary and Slave's Self Evaluation, 2011
I think Mistress had a very fulfilling Birthday / Anniversary Eve here in River City. No it was not as relaxing as last Saturday, when we wee safely ensconced at our mountain hideaway. But still…
Early morning sex, not too rushed.
A Bike ride.
Mistress and the surly teen had some quality time together, running errands and seeing a movie as I did some yard work and visited my ever cranky mother.
Mid afternoon nap with her Slave.
More sex, featuring a nice ass fucking of your truly.
An impromptu “training session” with the WC, finally back from yet another vacation leave, which added four more Hitachi induced cums to her total for the day.
Then dinner out at our favorite local restaurant and some dancing afterwards to end the day.
Hopefully Mistress has not run through her cum quota for the weekend, because it is switch day, and I’m thinking a full compliment of birthday spanks is in order.
What snuck up on us is that today is the one day of the year that Slave has the option of asking for some amendments to his contract. And of course it also gives Mistress the chance to see if she wants to tweak it (or throw me out with the trash too, I suppose).
The contract is what got us rolling here at UCTMW – it is the “sine qua non” – as the WC no doubt would put it if he could remember his Latin. The whole point was to get Mistress through a period of insecurity about us, and demonstrate my devotion to her.
Last year I did a little self-evaluation as a way to review our terms, so let’s try that one more time.
So here goes –he language from our contract with my self evaluation commentary and ranking on a scale of 1 (bad slave) to 5 (excellent Slave):
I. ROLE AND OBLIGATIONS OF THE SLAVE
1. Slave’s body and particularly his penis and ass belong solely to Mistress. Slave accepts the claim of ownership over his physical body by Mistress. His body is the property of the Mistress and he agrees to be commanded, trained and punished as a slave and is duty bound to fulfill the pleasures and desires of his Mistress to the best of his abilities.
Self rating 4- No problems here again this year, I hope. I have allowed Mistress full and exclusive use. When she says to strip, kneel, accept a spanking, I am always ready to hop to for her. Nor have there been any others treading on her rights. However, sometimes I do forget to worship at the first opportunity. So there is definitely room for improvement.
2. Slave will submit himself to his Mistress fully and completely. He accepts that his principle concern, goal and purpose in life as a slave will be to enhance the pleasure, happiness and quality of life of his Mistress. To perform any personal services, errands, and sexual services and to accept any training, punishment, humiliation, degradation or other use demanded of him by his Mistress, in private or in public.
Self rating 3- I still need to improve in this category. No problems with the training, punishment, etc. But I should be focused more on making Mistress’s life easier by volunteering to perform annoying and burdensome tasks, rather than waiting for direction. And sometimes I do forget to finish the assigned tasks, like those light bulbs in the girl’s bathroom…. Will make sure that gets handled today, Mistress.
3. The slave gives the Mistress the sole and exclusive use of his body. This may include, but is not limited to, the length of his hair, shaving of his body hair, tattooing, body weight and manner of dress and undress.
Self rating 4- I don’t think there are any problems in this area. Fortunately, Mistress is not into tatoos. And our clothing tastes coincide. At her request I have avoided any head shaving.
4.The slave will not allow or permit the use of his body by any other person, to include physical contact or sexual relations.
SO far N/A. No one has come onto me this year that I am aware of. I guess on no longer send off those “available” vibes. Either that or I’m tool old, bald and paunchy.
5. The slave must make himself available to his Owner at all times and to this end must ensure that he carries a telephone with him all day, every day, that the telephone is available to receive calls and the telephone number is known to his Owner. The slave shall report any calls to the Mistress that she would find disturbing. If the slave receives such calls, he shall quickly tell the caller that he is NOT to be contacted under any circumstances. This is enforced for text messages, emails or any contact what so ever.
Self Rating: 2- I violated this rule yesterday by forgetting my cell phone and we lost touch for a while. But no problem with those “bad” calls.
5. If for any reason the slave learns that he may be unable to respond immediately to an order or call from his Owner (such as a business meeting or a trip which takes the slave out of reasonable traveling distance from his Owner), he must immediately explain his lack of contact to his Owner by email or text message. If he fails to do so, he will be considered to be in breach of this contract (see clause IV/5). Note that this punishment will likely not be of the slave’s liking or meet any desires.
Self Rating: 3- I think I have covered my ass in this way, usually by a text message or email explaining I am on a conference call, etc. But sometimes I can be a little slow with my explanation.
6. The Owner may at any time give, rent, or lend the slave to another Mistress without consulting or giving notice to the slave. The rights and privileges afforded by this contract will be automatically transferred to the new Owner.
So far, N/A. Mistress has no available “babysitters” like Suzanne does over at ALL Mine. Then again, it’s pretty rare that she goes away for more than a day or two.
7. In order to ensure the slave’s compliance and obedience to his Owner, he will at the direction and sole option of mistress be locked in a chastity device, which he will not be able to remove without permission of the Mistress. The slave should never expect the device to be removed other than by Mistress or with her permission. On such occasions that it is removed (for example, for the device to be cleaned), Mistress has the right to restrain Slave and not release him from such restraints until the chastity device is once again locked in place.
Self Rating: 3 – I happily and without too much whining apply my cock cage and have Mistress lock it ,when requested. We have not used it as much in recent months because we drive to work together.
8. The Owner shall have complete and absolute control over the slave and all of her commands shall be swiftly and diligently obeyed. The slave will accept any and all consequences, as outlined under REMEDIAL ACTIONS, for any failures to do so.
Self Rating 3- I may not do the swift thing as swiftly as I should sometimes. So far, the consequences have been easy to accept.
9. Even the slave’s thoughts belong to Mistress. He shall fully and completely answer the question “what are you thinking, slave?” whenever asked, without resentment or sarcasm. He will fully disclose to Mistress any thoughts he may have on ways in which she can enhance his submission to her, which she may either accept or reject at her discretion.
Self Rating 3- I hope I have improved in this area.
10.. The slave may not ask for this contract to be terminated. Only Mistress may terminate it.
Self rating – 5. No problem here.
11. This contract is made in good faith by both parties and shall be considered binding.
12. The slave gives the Mistress power to interpret this document as she sees fit. The slave gives the Mistress the authority to enforce the agreements made in this contract, using, if she feels necessary, physical punishment (see below).
Self rating -4 I can’t recall any issues re: interpretation in the last year.
II. ROLE, RIGHTS AND OBLIGATIONS OF THE MISTRESS
1. The Mistress has no obligations or duties towards the slave whatsoever, except as noted in this Agreement.
2. The Mistress will have ownership of slave's body, to use and or abuse as she sees fit for whatever purposes she desires.
4. Mistress has the right to engage in other relationships with men or women, of whatever nature, without obtaining additional consent from the Slave. Such relationships may include “vanilla” relationships, her taking or training of additional slaves, or her submission to other men or women.
Self rating 4: In this area, I have not only been accepting, but supportive.
4. Mistress has the right to disclose to any person her status as the Owner of Slave and the terms of this contract.
5. On Sunday mornings for at least 2 hours, and at other times of the week, upon agreement of the parties, Mistress will submit completely and totally to slave, as if she was the Slave and he was the Master/Owner of her under the terms of this agreement.
Self rating – 4- Hopefully I have not abused this privilege. I believe Mistress’s enjoys these occasional opportunities to “turn over the keys”.
III. RULES APPLICABLE TO SLAVE
1. It is slave’s obligation to determine when his chastity device should be worn, and to offer to put it on whenever he leaves the home. Failure to ask mistress if he should wear his chastity device will be grounds for punishment.
2.
Self Rating 1- I have failed in this area. Yesterday I did not ask whether she wanted me to wear it.
3. When slave returns home from work or any other absence for more than one hour, he will kneel and offer to worship Mistress’ and kiss her feet.
4.
Self Rating 2- Again, I have been sloppy. This is hit or miss for me, and I need to remind myself of this obligation, even if Mistress may seem otherwise preoccupied because she wants to ride a bike, etc.
5. Slave shall not sleep in underwear, and may be instructed to strip completely or partially at any time Mistress directs.
6.
Self Rating 4- I have become well trained to sleep only in underwear, and strip on command without question. Big deal you might say, and you would be right. Who could complain about being asked to strip by such a fetching Mistress.
7. No more than once per week, typically on Sunday morning unless otherwise agreed, slave may restrain and use a riding crop on mistress to give her pleasure, but must stop if directed to stop.
8.
Self rating 1- I did screw up with that clothespin episode a few weeks back..
Slave will submit without resistance to any restraints or physical punishment that mistress chooses to impose.
Self rating – 4. No problem here. But Mistress has not used restraints on me much in the last year.
9. Slave will never masturbate or otherwise stimulate his penis without Mistress’s consent.
Self rating 5- I remain well trained not to touch unless directed. When Mistress went to Europe I did masturbate once each day, with her permission and under her direction.
When mistress is out of town, Slave will wear his chastity device as directed, and not remove it unless he receives specific permission from Mistress.
Self rating 5- when this has happened, I have towed the chastity device line.
10. Slave will beg for permission to come, and not come unless he receives Mistress’s permission.
11.
Self Evaluation 4- I think there was only 1 or 2 out of many opportunities this last year when my “permission” requirement was breached, usually because she is so damn hot.
Mistress may use a strap on or any other device to penetrate Slave to remind him of her control and dominance.
Self Evaluation 4- Yum.
12. Slave will insert any device designated by Mistress as she directs.
Self Evaluation 5 – well trained here. Though I guess I don’t know how I would handle a device other than our trusty white aneros.
13. When having sex, Slave may penetrate mistress only after begging for and receiving her permission, and will withdraw immediately if directed.
Self Evaluation 3- Probably need to work on my begging. Sometimes I just take the cue and go for it.
14. Slave will report any overtures or solicitations from any female to Mistress, and reject such solicitation with the statement that he is happily married and devoted to his wife/ Mistress.
N/A so far.
15. If Mistress leaves the City for any reason, Slave will be available by phone, text or email at all times unless involved in a business meeting or court engagement
Self Evaluation 4- I don’t believe Mistress has lost track of me under these circumstances when she is out of town, other than an occasional time when I am in a meeting or on another call.
16. Slave will explain in advance any work or social engagements, and get permission from Mistress before attending any engagements.
Self Evaluation 3- I think I have improved in this area, though there may be times when I don’t go over my schedule in sufficient detail with Mistress.
17. Mistress may deny the Slave the right to attend any social engagement, or spend time with any persons at her sole discretion.
Self Evaluation 4- No resistance on my part to these restrictions.
18. When in private, Slave will address Mistress as “Mistress”. Mistress may refer to Slave as “Slave” at any time.
19.
Self Evaluation 2- Sometimes a “baby” r “darling” still slips out. Need to work on this to keep me in the proper mind set. Every now and then Mistress has let a “slave” slip out in a social setting.
20. At her discretion, Mistress may require Slave to wear a collar indicating his status as Slave.
N/A so far, other than that night with Aisha and her former friend..
21. Mistress has the right to declare periods of abstinence at her discretion.
Self Rating- 4- When Mistress calls for Abstinence I have not grumbled.
Slave will pleasure Mistress whenever requested, to the best of his ability.
Self Rating 4- Always room for improvement though.
22. Mistress may require Slave to masturbate whenever she demands.
Self Rating 4- Never reluctant to do this for Mistress
These rules applicable to slave may be amended and supplemented from time to time as Mistress directs, at her sole discretion.
III. REMEDIAL ACTIONS
The slave agrees to submit himself completely to his Mistress, to accept her domination of him and to unquestioningly and without exception obey any and all demands that she may make of him. The Owner has the following means of redress should she deem the slave to be in non-compliance with an order:
1. Without limitation, the Owner may inflict upon the slave any punishment with whatever implements she wishes to use. The slave understands and consents that such punishments may include severe pain and suffering, including pain and suffering of a sexual nature. The duration of such punishments and the level of pain inflicted will be decided solely by the Mistress.
2. The slave has no right to protest his Mistress’s decision in any matter, least of all his own punishment. He shall hold his Mistress blameless for any physical or emotional damage she may inflict upon him and in signing this contract the slave consents, without exception, to any and all punishments, physical or otherwise, that the Owner chooses to inflict upon him.
Self Evaluation 2- I can still probably be a little manipulative when it comes to decision making around here. So improvement is required.
I look forward to hearing Mistress performance review of her Slave.
Early morning sex, not too rushed.
A Bike ride.
Mistress and the surly teen had some quality time together, running errands and seeing a movie as I did some yard work and visited my ever cranky mother.
Mid afternoon nap with her Slave.
More sex, featuring a nice ass fucking of your truly.
An impromptu “training session” with the WC, finally back from yet another vacation leave, which added four more Hitachi induced cums to her total for the day.
Then dinner out at our favorite local restaurant and some dancing afterwards to end the day.
Hopefully Mistress has not run through her cum quota for the weekend, because it is switch day, and I’m thinking a full compliment of birthday spanks is in order.
What snuck up on us is that today is the one day of the year that Slave has the option of asking for some amendments to his contract. And of course it also gives Mistress the chance to see if she wants to tweak it (or throw me out with the trash too, I suppose).
The contract is what got us rolling here at UCTMW – it is the “sine qua non” – as the WC no doubt would put it if he could remember his Latin. The whole point was to get Mistress through a period of insecurity about us, and demonstrate my devotion to her.
Last year I did a little self-evaluation as a way to review our terms, so let’s try that one more time.
So here goes –he language from our contract with my self evaluation commentary and ranking on a scale of 1 (bad slave) to 5 (excellent Slave):
I. ROLE AND OBLIGATIONS OF THE SLAVE
1. Slave’s body and particularly his penis and ass belong solely to Mistress. Slave accepts the claim of ownership over his physical body by Mistress. His body is the property of the Mistress and he agrees to be commanded, trained and punished as a slave and is duty bound to fulfill the pleasures and desires of his Mistress to the best of his abilities.
Self rating 4- No problems here again this year, I hope. I have allowed Mistress full and exclusive use. When she says to strip, kneel, accept a spanking, I am always ready to hop to for her. Nor have there been any others treading on her rights. However, sometimes I do forget to worship at the first opportunity. So there is definitely room for improvement.
2. Slave will submit himself to his Mistress fully and completely. He accepts that his principle concern, goal and purpose in life as a slave will be to enhance the pleasure, happiness and quality of life of his Mistress. To perform any personal services, errands, and sexual services and to accept any training, punishment, humiliation, degradation or other use demanded of him by his Mistress, in private or in public.
Self rating 3- I still need to improve in this category. No problems with the training, punishment, etc. But I should be focused more on making Mistress’s life easier by volunteering to perform annoying and burdensome tasks, rather than waiting for direction. And sometimes I do forget to finish the assigned tasks, like those light bulbs in the girl’s bathroom…. Will make sure that gets handled today, Mistress.
3. The slave gives the Mistress the sole and exclusive use of his body. This may include, but is not limited to, the length of his hair, shaving of his body hair, tattooing, body weight and manner of dress and undress.
Self rating 4- I don’t think there are any problems in this area. Fortunately, Mistress is not into tatoos. And our clothing tastes coincide. At her request I have avoided any head shaving.
4.The slave will not allow or permit the use of his body by any other person, to include physical contact or sexual relations.
SO far N/A. No one has come onto me this year that I am aware of. I guess on no longer send off those “available” vibes. Either that or I’m tool old, bald and paunchy.
5. The slave must make himself available to his Owner at all times and to this end must ensure that he carries a telephone with him all day, every day, that the telephone is available to receive calls and the telephone number is known to his Owner. The slave shall report any calls to the Mistress that she would find disturbing. If the slave receives such calls, he shall quickly tell the caller that he is NOT to be contacted under any circumstances. This is enforced for text messages, emails or any contact what so ever.
Self Rating: 2- I violated this rule yesterday by forgetting my cell phone and we lost touch for a while. But no problem with those “bad” calls.
5. If for any reason the slave learns that he may be unable to respond immediately to an order or call from his Owner (such as a business meeting or a trip which takes the slave out of reasonable traveling distance from his Owner), he must immediately explain his lack of contact to his Owner by email or text message. If he fails to do so, he will be considered to be in breach of this contract (see clause IV/5). Note that this punishment will likely not be of the slave’s liking or meet any desires.
Self Rating: 3- I think I have covered my ass in this way, usually by a text message or email explaining I am on a conference call, etc. But sometimes I can be a little slow with my explanation.
6. The Owner may at any time give, rent, or lend the slave to another Mistress without consulting or giving notice to the slave. The rights and privileges afforded by this contract will be automatically transferred to the new Owner.
So far, N/A. Mistress has no available “babysitters” like Suzanne does over at ALL Mine. Then again, it’s pretty rare that she goes away for more than a day or two.
7. In order to ensure the slave’s compliance and obedience to his Owner, he will at the direction and sole option of mistress be locked in a chastity device, which he will not be able to remove without permission of the Mistress. The slave should never expect the device to be removed other than by Mistress or with her permission. On such occasions that it is removed (for example, for the device to be cleaned), Mistress has the right to restrain Slave and not release him from such restraints until the chastity device is once again locked in place.
Self Rating: 3 – I happily and without too much whining apply my cock cage and have Mistress lock it ,when requested. We have not used it as much in recent months because we drive to work together.
8. The Owner shall have complete and absolute control over the slave and all of her commands shall be swiftly and diligently obeyed. The slave will accept any and all consequences, as outlined under REMEDIAL ACTIONS, for any failures to do so.
Self Rating 3- I may not do the swift thing as swiftly as I should sometimes. So far, the consequences have been easy to accept.
9. Even the slave’s thoughts belong to Mistress. He shall fully and completely answer the question “what are you thinking, slave?” whenever asked, without resentment or sarcasm. He will fully disclose to Mistress any thoughts he may have on ways in which she can enhance his submission to her, which she may either accept or reject at her discretion.
Self Rating 3- I hope I have improved in this area.
10.. The slave may not ask for this contract to be terminated. Only Mistress may terminate it.
Self rating – 5. No problem here.
11. This contract is made in good faith by both parties and shall be considered binding.
12. The slave gives the Mistress power to interpret this document as she sees fit. The slave gives the Mistress the authority to enforce the agreements made in this contract, using, if she feels necessary, physical punishment (see below).
Self rating -4 I can’t recall any issues re: interpretation in the last year.
II. ROLE, RIGHTS AND OBLIGATIONS OF THE MISTRESS
1. The Mistress has no obligations or duties towards the slave whatsoever, except as noted in this Agreement.
2. The Mistress will have ownership of slave's body, to use and or abuse as she sees fit for whatever purposes she desires.
4. Mistress has the right to engage in other relationships with men or women, of whatever nature, without obtaining additional consent from the Slave. Such relationships may include “vanilla” relationships, her taking or training of additional slaves, or her submission to other men or women.
Self rating 4: In this area, I have not only been accepting, but supportive.
4. Mistress has the right to disclose to any person her status as the Owner of Slave and the terms of this contract.
5. On Sunday mornings for at least 2 hours, and at other times of the week, upon agreement of the parties, Mistress will submit completely and totally to slave, as if she was the Slave and he was the Master/Owner of her under the terms of this agreement.
Self rating – 4- Hopefully I have not abused this privilege. I believe Mistress’s enjoys these occasional opportunities to “turn over the keys”.
III. RULES APPLICABLE TO SLAVE
1. It is slave’s obligation to determine when his chastity device should be worn, and to offer to put it on whenever he leaves the home. Failure to ask mistress if he should wear his chastity device will be grounds for punishment.
2.
Self Rating 1- I have failed in this area. Yesterday I did not ask whether she wanted me to wear it.
3. When slave returns home from work or any other absence for more than one hour, he will kneel and offer to worship Mistress’ and kiss her feet.
4.
Self Rating 2- Again, I have been sloppy. This is hit or miss for me, and I need to remind myself of this obligation, even if Mistress may seem otherwise preoccupied because she wants to ride a bike, etc.
5. Slave shall not sleep in underwear, and may be instructed to strip completely or partially at any time Mistress directs.
6.
Self Rating 4- I have become well trained to sleep only in underwear, and strip on command without question. Big deal you might say, and you would be right. Who could complain about being asked to strip by such a fetching Mistress.
7. No more than once per week, typically on Sunday morning unless otherwise agreed, slave may restrain and use a riding crop on mistress to give her pleasure, but must stop if directed to stop.
8.
Self rating 1- I did screw up with that clothespin episode a few weeks back..
Slave will submit without resistance to any restraints or physical punishment that mistress chooses to impose.
Self rating – 4. No problem here. But Mistress has not used restraints on me much in the last year.
9. Slave will never masturbate or otherwise stimulate his penis without Mistress’s consent.
Self rating 5- I remain well trained not to touch unless directed. When Mistress went to Europe I did masturbate once each day, with her permission and under her direction.
When mistress is out of town, Slave will wear his chastity device as directed, and not remove it unless he receives specific permission from Mistress.
Self rating 5- when this has happened, I have towed the chastity device line.
10. Slave will beg for permission to come, and not come unless he receives Mistress’s permission.
11.
Self Evaluation 4- I think there was only 1 or 2 out of many opportunities this last year when my “permission” requirement was breached, usually because she is so damn hot.
Mistress may use a strap on or any other device to penetrate Slave to remind him of her control and dominance.
Self Evaluation 4- Yum.
12. Slave will insert any device designated by Mistress as she directs.
Self Evaluation 5 – well trained here. Though I guess I don’t know how I would handle a device other than our trusty white aneros.
13. When having sex, Slave may penetrate mistress only after begging for and receiving her permission, and will withdraw immediately if directed.
Self Evaluation 3- Probably need to work on my begging. Sometimes I just take the cue and go for it.
14. Slave will report any overtures or solicitations from any female to Mistress, and reject such solicitation with the statement that he is happily married and devoted to his wife/ Mistress.
N/A so far.
15. If Mistress leaves the City for any reason, Slave will be available by phone, text or email at all times unless involved in a business meeting or court engagement
Self Evaluation 4- I don’t believe Mistress has lost track of me under these circumstances when she is out of town, other than an occasional time when I am in a meeting or on another call.
16. Slave will explain in advance any work or social engagements, and get permission from Mistress before attending any engagements.
Self Evaluation 3- I think I have improved in this area, though there may be times when I don’t go over my schedule in sufficient detail with Mistress.
17. Mistress may deny the Slave the right to attend any social engagement, or spend time with any persons at her sole discretion.
Self Evaluation 4- No resistance on my part to these restrictions.
18. When in private, Slave will address Mistress as “Mistress”. Mistress may refer to Slave as “Slave” at any time.
19.
Self Evaluation 2- Sometimes a “baby” r “darling” still slips out. Need to work on this to keep me in the proper mind set. Every now and then Mistress has let a “slave” slip out in a social setting.
20. At her discretion, Mistress may require Slave to wear a collar indicating his status as Slave.
N/A so far, other than that night with Aisha and her former friend..
21. Mistress has the right to declare periods of abstinence at her discretion.
Self Rating- 4- When Mistress calls for Abstinence I have not grumbled.
Slave will pleasure Mistress whenever requested, to the best of his ability.
Self Rating 4- Always room for improvement though.
22. Mistress may require Slave to masturbate whenever she demands.
Self Rating 4- Never reluctant to do this for Mistress
These rules applicable to slave may be amended and supplemented from time to time as Mistress directs, at her sole discretion.
III. REMEDIAL ACTIONS
The slave agrees to submit himself completely to his Mistress, to accept her domination of him and to unquestioningly and without exception obey any and all demands that she may make of him. The Owner has the following means of redress should she deem the slave to be in non-compliance with an order:
1. Without limitation, the Owner may inflict upon the slave any punishment with whatever implements she wishes to use. The slave understands and consents that such punishments may include severe pain and suffering, including pain and suffering of a sexual nature. The duration of such punishments and the level of pain inflicted will be decided solely by the Mistress.
2. The slave has no right to protest his Mistress’s decision in any matter, least of all his own punishment. He shall hold his Mistress blameless for any physical or emotional damage she may inflict upon him and in signing this contract the slave consents, without exception, to any and all punishments, physical or otherwise, that the Owner chooses to inflict upon him.
Self Evaluation 2- I can still probably be a little manipulative when it comes to decision making around here. So improvement is required.
I look forward to hearing Mistress performance review of her Slave.
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